My Symptoms & Rambling Thoughts
I feel good. Except for the occasional headache or bout of heartburn, I feel very...normal. I am thinking this pregnancy thing isn't so hard...ask me again in three months. I am amazed at the amount of movement I've been feeling over the last week. It was like once I was sure I felt her, she moves all the time. I love it. It's still move vague rumbly feelings than distinct kicks, but I get some of those too. Now I just can't wait until they get a little stronger and Eric can feel them too. I'm also more adjusted to the fact that we're having a girl now. I don't know why, but for some reason a daughter seems like so much more of a responsibility to me. I don't know why. Maybe because I am a woman and rather than just nurture and provide for a child, I have to be an example of what she should be. I'm not sure I'm up to that. I know I always looked at my Mom as a shining example of what it meant to be a good woman, wife, and mother. I hope my daughter can see me that way. I guess maybe this is why my Mom spent so much time praying and talking to God. I'm going to need some serious help. One more tidbit before I get into developmental stuff. Today at church we sang Amazing Grace. One portion of the verse really touched me, even though I know that I am not taking it as it was written, bear with me.
"Twas grace that taught my heart to fear,
and grace my fears relieved.
How precious then, that grace appeared,
the hour I first believed."
Thinking about my pregnancy and experience. I just pointed out how becoming a mother has added some fears to my experience. But, knowing that I will have my Grace is such an amazing source of joy. The best part is the end. I got pregnant when I decided to let God take back control of my life. "How precious then that Grace (my child) appeared, the hour I first believed (gave it back to God)." Maybe it's hormones, but it brought a tear to my eye.
One more thing, I love it when Eric asks me how his daughter is doing. Doesn't daughter seem so much more "real" than "baby?"
The Baby
Your baby is getting larger in this first week of the second half of pregnancy. It now weighs about 10.5 ounces, and it's crown-to-rump length is about 7.2 inches. It is about the size of a large banana.
It’s about 14 ounces and a hiccupping fool! Yep, hiccups are those little jerky motions you may feel -- it’s her little lungs practicing the important task of breathing.
Your baby now weighs about three-quarters of a pound and is approximately 10 1/2 inches long. His eyebrows and eyelids are fully developed. And you can certainly feel him move. He's oblivious to your schedule, though, so don't be surprised if he starts working out just when you're settling down for the night. If you're having a girl, her vagina is formed now, though it will continue to develop until birth.
Your baby can still move all over in the amniotic fluid. Towards the end of this trimester the baby will begin to settle, usually in a head down position (Although some babies do not turn head down until late in the last trimester.). About 3-4% of babies will remain in a breech position. Your baby weighs just under a pound (13 ounces or 369 grams).
The Mom
You can feel your uterus about half an inch above your bellybutton. At the doctor's office, your uterus measures almost 8.5 inches from the pubic symphysis. Your weight gain should be between 10 and 15 pounds. By this week, your waistline is definately gone. Your friends and relatives - and strangers, too - can tell you're pregnant. It would be hard to hide your condition.
You’re probably finally showing. As you begin to get bigger and bigger, you may wonder about the safety of traveling while pregnant. Here are a few tips:
- I f you’re traveling by car, take a break every hour to keep your circulation up!
- Always use your seat belt. Buckled low on your lap, it should cause no discomfort and may save lives -- the lives of both you and your baby.
- Travel in the final month ONLY if you are prepared to have your baby on the road. In any case, check it out with your caregiver first.
- Airplane air is very dry. Keep yourself hydrated by dosing yourself with water and juice throughout the flight (no alcohol, but that should go without saying!).
- Many airlines require a doctor’s note if you are traveling in the third trimester. Call the airline to determine the policy, and call your doctor to find out the recommendations BEFORE you buy those non-refundable, non-changeable tickets.
You're probably feeling pretty comfortable these days. You're not too big yet, and the usual aches and pains associated with early pregnancy are, for the most part, gone. Relax and enjoy it while you can — the third trimester will bring some mild discomfort from carrying a baby who is nearly full-term.That's not to say you don't have some minor glitches to deal with now. Increased oil production may have given you a mild case of acne, for example. If that's the case, be diligent about washing well with a gentle soap and water twice a day, but don't take any oral acne medications — or even use any topical acne products — without checking with your practitioner first.You're also prone to varicose veins now (especially if your mom has them). That's because pregnancy puts added pressure on the veins in your legs. (Your blood volume is increased and your uterus puts pressure on the inferior vena cava, the large vein that returns blood from the lower half of your body to your heart.) As if that's not enough, an increase in the hormone progesterone causes the walls of your blood vessels to relax, so as your baby and uterus grow, the veins can become more and more prominent. Varicose veins tend to worsen with each pregnancy, and while they're most likely to show up in your legs, they can also appear on your vulva.If your legs ache, put maternity support hose on first thing in the morning. Increasing your circulation with a brisk walk each day can also help, as can elevating your legs and sleeping on your left side with your feet propped up with a pillow.
Everyone is probably telling you what sex your baby is using different myths! Some people find this fun, other find it annoying. Using things like how you carry, the Chinese Gender Chart, or other myths are fun, but not always accurate. Have you decided whether you want to find out the gender of your baby? There are many things to consider before doing so, and still your baby may not cooperate.
Sunday, August 01, 2004
Thursday, July 29, 2004
It's a ....
We had the big appointment today. I have to be honest up front and say that I was a little disappointed. I think I was expecting clearer pictures and that we'd be able to see a whole lot now that the baby's bigger. They weren't and we couldn't. Now Eric says he could see what the doctor was pointing out, but I couldn't. I felt like Rachel on Friends. I actually cried when we got to the car because I couldn't tell what anything was.
Here's what we did see. The baby has hands, feet, fingers, and toes. We saw the head, heart with 4 chambers beating away, spinal cord, and legs. At one point we followed the legs down and saw them moving and I felt movement. I guess that really confirms it, I saw the baby kick while I felt it. These movements are baby related. It weighs 10 ounces right now.
Hmmm...what else? Oh yeah, it's a girl! Again, I couldn't see anything, but the doctor was pretty sure she was seeing girl parts. We asked her how sure and she said 85%. I'll take that. I think I was hoping for a boy, but I wanted at least one of each anyway, so a girl is just fine. I'm guessing she'll have her Dad wrapped around her little finger in no time. Her name will be Grace Ellen Marie. I love that name. So now just 20 more weeks until little Grace can come out to play.
Here's what we did see. The baby has hands, feet, fingers, and toes. We saw the head, heart with 4 chambers beating away, spinal cord, and legs. At one point we followed the legs down and saw them moving and I felt movement. I guess that really confirms it, I saw the baby kick while I felt it. These movements are baby related. It weighs 10 ounces right now.
Hmmm...what else? Oh yeah, it's a girl! Again, I couldn't see anything, but the doctor was pretty sure she was seeing girl parts. We asked her how sure and she said 85%. I'll take that. I think I was hoping for a boy, but I wanted at least one of each anyway, so a girl is just fine. I'm guessing she'll have her Dad wrapped around her little finger in no time. Her name will be Grace Ellen Marie. I love that name. So now just 20 more weeks until little Grace can come out to play.
Wednesday, July 28, 2004
Guesses Anyone?
Anybody want to take a guess for tomorrow? It seems like the majority of guesses I’ve heard so far have been for a girl. Here’s a quick rundown. I’m sorry if I don’t remember your guess, feel free to leave a comment and tell me what you think. Results will (hopefully) be revealed tomorrow.
- Girl – Ava Chu – Remember my October 2003 GWO?
- Girl – Chinese Gender Chart
- Girl – Erica – Maybe because of Ava Chu…
- Girl – Danialle – Maybe because of Ava Chu…
- Boy – Eric – Maybe because it’s what he wants
- Boy – Jennifer – I keep saying “he”
- Girl – Guy at the Chinese Takeout Place – Last night he asked me how many months I was. I said 4 ½. He said, “You having girl?” I said, “We’ll find out Thursday.” He said, “I think girl.”
Feel free to share your thoughts.
- Girl – Ava Chu – Remember my October 2003 GWO?
- Girl – Chinese Gender Chart
- Girl – Erica – Maybe because of Ava Chu…
- Girl – Danialle – Maybe because of Ava Chu…
- Boy – Eric – Maybe because it’s what he wants
- Boy – Jennifer – I keep saying “he”
- Girl – Guy at the Chinese Takeout Place – Last night he asked me how many months I was. I said 4 ½. He said, “You having girl?” I said, “We’ll find out Thursday.” He said, “I think girl.”
Feel free to share your thoughts.
Monday, July 26, 2004
19 Weeks, 2 Days - The Twentieth Week
My Symptoms
I feel big. I think I've gained a pretty good amount of weight this week. I'm waiting a couple more days to do pics and measurements in case it's just left over from my weekend, but I don't think I have to worry about not gaining enough during this stage. I'm also officially feeling movement. I'm still pretty sure I felt it a couple of times over the past two or three weeks, but some of it was probably gas or hunger. If you read my weekend post, you'll know that I'm sure I felt it on Saturday. Today was even more confirmation. I think since I sit alot at work, I'm more apt to notice it. I was a little slow in going to lunch, but I was sitting at my desk trying to get a few more things done. I had my chair pushed in and my belly was touching the desk. I felt two distinct thumps from inside. I know that wasn't my stomach growling. Then the rest of the afternoon, I kept feeling little nudges. Not so much tonight, but I'm sure it'll just get stronger the next couple of days and weeks. I've also been getting heartburn more. Nothing too serious, but it helps to remain upright after a meal. Laying on the couch after dinner is bad. Last thing... only three more days until the ultrasound! I'm really excited. I'll post on Thursday, but will probably call most people first. I need to get my call list together. Here's what all the books and websites say is going on this week. By the way, I'm still a definate innie.
The Baby
At this point in development, the crown-to-rump length is 5.6 to 6.4 inches. Your baby weighs about 9 ounces.
Your bun in the oven is "half-baked!" All the pieces are there and, if it’s a girl, she’s growing her vagina this week!
Your baby weighs about 10 1/2 ounces now. He's also around 6 1/2 inches long from head to bottom, and about 10 inches from head to heel. (For the first 20 weeks, we use measurements taken from the top of the baby's head to her bottom — known as the "crown to rump" measurement. After that, we use measurements from head to toe. (This is because a baby's legs are curled up against her torso during the first half of pregnancy and are very hard to measure.)A greasy white substance called vernix caseosa coats her entire body to protect her skin during its long submersion in amniotic fluid. (This slick coating also eases the journey down the birth canal.)Your baby is swallowing more, which is good practice for her digestive system. She's also producing meconium, a black, sticky substance that's the result of cell loss, digestive secretion, and swallowed amniotic fluid. This meconium will accumulate in her bowels, and you'll see it in her first messy diaper (although a few babies pass it in utero or during delivery).
Lanugo forms from sebum and skin cells to create vernix. This creamy white substance is believed to help protect the baby inutero. It will cling to the lanugo and in the creases. This is also something that can be seen sometimes after the birth. Rumor has it that nursery nurses use it for hand lotion, because of its smooth, protect quality. You may be aware of sleep wake cycles in your little one. The weight is now up to 10 ounces (283 grams) and the baby measures about 25 cms total length, about 9.8 inches.
The Mom
Congratulations - 20 weeks marks the midpoint, and you're halfway through your pregnancy! Your uterus is probably about even with your bellybutton. Your healthcare provider has been watching your growth and the enlargement of your uterus. Growth to this point may have been irregular, but usually becomes more regular after the 20th week.
Some women experience temporary vision changes during pregnancy. If you wear contact lenses, they may become uncomfortable for you because of the increased fluid in your eyes. Don’t buy an expensive pair of glasses now -- your vision will revert to its normal condition once baby is here. Your belly button may become an "outie" as the uterus presses on it from behind. Some women swear that putting a Band-Aid on it helps keep it from brushing painfully against their clothes. Worth a try!
You've made it to the halfway mark — Congratulations! The top of your uterus is at the level of your belly button now, and you've likely gained about 10 pounds. Expect to gain an average of about another pound each week from now on. (If you started your pregnancy underweight, you may need to gain a bit more; if you were overweight, perhaps a bit less.) Make sure you're getting enough iron, a mineral that's used primarily to make hemoglobin (the part of your red blood cells that carries oxygen). During pregnancy, your body needs more iron for your developing baby and the placenta, and to keep up with your expanding blood volume. Iron-rich foods include lean red meat, poultry, fish, lentils and other legumes, spinach, and iron-fortified cereals.
POP! Your belly button may pop out and stay that way until delivery as your uterus presses upwards. Some people will have trouble breathing as their lungs become cramped with the internal organs. This will usually continue until the baby "drops" or engages into the pelvis. In a first pregnancy this will generally occur 4-6 weeks before your birth and with subsequent pregnancies not until you are in labor. There is a trade off once the baby "drops." You will have to urinate more frequently, hard to believe, eh? Remembering to do your pelvic tilts prior to laying down will hopefully allow you a few more minutes of rest before the next bathroom break. You are half way through your pregnancy! Congratulations!
I feel big. I think I've gained a pretty good amount of weight this week. I'm waiting a couple more days to do pics and measurements in case it's just left over from my weekend, but I don't think I have to worry about not gaining enough during this stage. I'm also officially feeling movement. I'm still pretty sure I felt it a couple of times over the past two or three weeks, but some of it was probably gas or hunger. If you read my weekend post, you'll know that I'm sure I felt it on Saturday. Today was even more confirmation. I think since I sit alot at work, I'm more apt to notice it. I was a little slow in going to lunch, but I was sitting at my desk trying to get a few more things done. I had my chair pushed in and my belly was touching the desk. I felt two distinct thumps from inside. I know that wasn't my stomach growling. Then the rest of the afternoon, I kept feeling little nudges. Not so much tonight, but I'm sure it'll just get stronger the next couple of days and weeks. I've also been getting heartburn more. Nothing too serious, but it helps to remain upright after a meal. Laying on the couch after dinner is bad. Last thing... only three more days until the ultrasound! I'm really excited. I'll post on Thursday, but will probably call most people first. I need to get my call list together. Here's what all the books and websites say is going on this week. By the way, I'm still a definate innie.
The Baby
At this point in development, the crown-to-rump length is 5.6 to 6.4 inches. Your baby weighs about 9 ounces.
Your bun in the oven is "half-baked!" All the pieces are there and, if it’s a girl, she’s growing her vagina this week!
Your baby weighs about 10 1/2 ounces now. He's also around 6 1/2 inches long from head to bottom, and about 10 inches from head to heel. (For the first 20 weeks, we use measurements taken from the top of the baby's head to her bottom — known as the "crown to rump" measurement. After that, we use measurements from head to toe. (This is because a baby's legs are curled up against her torso during the first half of pregnancy and are very hard to measure.)A greasy white substance called vernix caseosa coats her entire body to protect her skin during its long submersion in amniotic fluid. (This slick coating also eases the journey down the birth canal.)Your baby is swallowing more, which is good practice for her digestive system. She's also producing meconium, a black, sticky substance that's the result of cell loss, digestive secretion, and swallowed amniotic fluid. This meconium will accumulate in her bowels, and you'll see it in her first messy diaper (although a few babies pass it in utero or during delivery).
Lanugo forms from sebum and skin cells to create vernix. This creamy white substance is believed to help protect the baby inutero. It will cling to the lanugo and in the creases. This is also something that can be seen sometimes after the birth. Rumor has it that nursery nurses use it for hand lotion, because of its smooth, protect quality. You may be aware of sleep wake cycles in your little one. The weight is now up to 10 ounces (283 grams) and the baby measures about 25 cms total length, about 9.8 inches.
The Mom
Congratulations - 20 weeks marks the midpoint, and you're halfway through your pregnancy! Your uterus is probably about even with your bellybutton. Your healthcare provider has been watching your growth and the enlargement of your uterus. Growth to this point may have been irregular, but usually becomes more regular after the 20th week.
Some women experience temporary vision changes during pregnancy. If you wear contact lenses, they may become uncomfortable for you because of the increased fluid in your eyes. Don’t buy an expensive pair of glasses now -- your vision will revert to its normal condition once baby is here. Your belly button may become an "outie" as the uterus presses on it from behind. Some women swear that putting a Band-Aid on it helps keep it from brushing painfully against their clothes. Worth a try!
You've made it to the halfway mark — Congratulations! The top of your uterus is at the level of your belly button now, and you've likely gained about 10 pounds. Expect to gain an average of about another pound each week from now on. (If you started your pregnancy underweight, you may need to gain a bit more; if you were overweight, perhaps a bit less.) Make sure you're getting enough iron, a mineral that's used primarily to make hemoglobin (the part of your red blood cells that carries oxygen). During pregnancy, your body needs more iron for your developing baby and the placenta, and to keep up with your expanding blood volume. Iron-rich foods include lean red meat, poultry, fish, lentils and other legumes, spinach, and iron-fortified cereals.
POP! Your belly button may pop out and stay that way until delivery as your uterus presses upwards. Some people will have trouble breathing as their lungs become cramped with the internal organs. This will usually continue until the baby "drops" or engages into the pelvis. In a first pregnancy this will generally occur 4-6 weeks before your birth and with subsequent pregnancies not until you are in labor. There is a trade off once the baby "drops." You will have to urinate more frequently, hard to believe, eh? Remembering to do your pelvic tilts prior to laying down will hopefully allow you a few more minutes of rest before the next bathroom break. You are half way through your pregnancy! Congratulations!
Girls Weekend
Time for my update on GWO V in Chicago. It was, as always, a wonderful weekend with my best friends.
Thursday I left work around 4:00 p.m. and was a bit anxious as the line to check in was extremely long. When I got up to the counter, I found out why. Storms in Chicago had delayed flights all over the place and lucky for me, mine was one of them. My flight was scheduled to leave at 5:25 p.m., but the lady at the desk said it might be 8 or 9 p.m. The bad thing was they didn’t know when it would be. At around 6:15 p.m. they gave us word that the flight from Chicago was in the air and we should be able to leave by 7:15. I went to find something to eat and when I ambled back to the gate around 6:45 p.m., they were boarding! Yeah! Once on the plane we were told that we weren’t allowed to leave until 8:00 p.m., so we were going to go sit on the runway for awhile. We did end up leaving at 8:00 p.m., which got me into Chicago at around 8:30, just 2 ½ hours later than planned. Anyway, Erica and Danialle met me at the airport and the first thing we decided to do was get some food. We just got some McDonald’s and went back to Danialle’s. We chatted for a bit and then decided to walk down to a little restaurant to check out some dessert. It was so nice outside! After we got back we pretty much got ready for bed. I was a bit concerned about the lack of air conditioning, but I had a big fan blowing on me all night, so I actually slept pretty good.
On Friday, we got up in time to take Danialle’s husband to work at 8:30 a.m. We ate some yummy breakfast and then headed back downtown to do a little shopping on Michigan Avenue. There is always so much to look at, but good for my checkbook, no maternity stores! I did end up buying a couple of things anyway, but it was still fun. Heather gave us a call around noon, while we were still downtown, so we headed back to the car and then back to Danialle’s place. Next we decided to put on our beach wear and get some lunch before heading to the beach. We decided on wings, and after some time finally found a BW3’s. Danialle and Erica were brave and got hot ones, but I decided to play it safe. After lunch we hit the beach. It was cold! The wind had really picked up and it wasn’t that warm anyway, but we were determined not to let that stop us. We threw our towels out and picked a spot to chat. Heather fell asleep for a little bit, but the rest of us had some good conversations. I also tried digging a small hole for my belly and laying on my stomach. My pregnant friend Kelly from work said that was how she first felt her baby move. I think it worked for me too. Have you ever layed on a body part in a weird way and you can feel your heartbeat thumping in that body part? It felt like that in my lower abdomen. Only, it wasn’t a consistent, “thump-thump-thump.” It was more like “thump-thump……thump.” Also, if I moved or sat up and then layed back down, I’d feel it again. I’m calling that baby movement. After the beach, we checked into the hotel and all showered and changed. Then we went to Leona’s for dinner. It was ok, but not as great as last time we ate there. After dinner, we walked around a bit until the stores closed up and then went back to the hotel to chat some more and sleep.
Saturday was a day of shopping. We went to Gurnee Mills outlet mall. We got there around 11 and shopped until 6 p.m. Again, I’m glad pregnancy limited my spending on clothing. There was one maternity store and I did by something, but one outfit isn’t too bad. Also, Danialle and Erica tried on the fake bellies at the store. We got a cute picture of us all with bellies. Where I really spent the cash though was at the Carter’s baby store outlet. Everything was so incredibly marked down. They had these $40 diaper bag’s that were only $10 with an additional $35 purchase, so I wanted to be sure I spent $35. I ended up buying 3 long sleeve sleepers, a cute ducky onesie, a super soft blanket, booties, and 2 bibs plus the diaper bag for about $60. After shopping until the verge of dropping, we headed back towards the hotel and decided on Outback for dinner. We got in relatively quickly and had this bizarre waiter. He was Native American, at least bi-sexual, and told us all about his new “Spiritual Love.” He made it interesting though and we spent two hours at the restaurant. It was 10:00 by the time we left and after all that shopping, I was pooped. We all went to bed fairly early.
Sunday morning we got up said our goodbyes and Danialle took me back to the airport. Luckily this trip wasn’t as bad as the way there, except one of my bags didn’t make it back. I checked two, but only one made the plane. I headed home and spent the rest of the afternoon being lazy. My bag was delivered around 7:30 p.m. officially ending my GWO trip.
Spending time with the girls is so great.
Thursday I left work around 4:00 p.m. and was a bit anxious as the line to check in was extremely long. When I got up to the counter, I found out why. Storms in Chicago had delayed flights all over the place and lucky for me, mine was one of them. My flight was scheduled to leave at 5:25 p.m., but the lady at the desk said it might be 8 or 9 p.m. The bad thing was they didn’t know when it would be. At around 6:15 p.m. they gave us word that the flight from Chicago was in the air and we should be able to leave by 7:15. I went to find something to eat and when I ambled back to the gate around 6:45 p.m., they were boarding! Yeah! Once on the plane we were told that we weren’t allowed to leave until 8:00 p.m., so we were going to go sit on the runway for awhile. We did end up leaving at 8:00 p.m., which got me into Chicago at around 8:30, just 2 ½ hours later than planned. Anyway, Erica and Danialle met me at the airport and the first thing we decided to do was get some food. We just got some McDonald’s and went back to Danialle’s. We chatted for a bit and then decided to walk down to a little restaurant to check out some dessert. It was so nice outside! After we got back we pretty much got ready for bed. I was a bit concerned about the lack of air conditioning, but I had a big fan blowing on me all night, so I actually slept pretty good.
On Friday, we got up in time to take Danialle’s husband to work at 8:30 a.m. We ate some yummy breakfast and then headed back downtown to do a little shopping on Michigan Avenue. There is always so much to look at, but good for my checkbook, no maternity stores! I did end up buying a couple of things anyway, but it was still fun. Heather gave us a call around noon, while we were still downtown, so we headed back to the car and then back to Danialle’s place. Next we decided to put on our beach wear and get some lunch before heading to the beach. We decided on wings, and after some time finally found a BW3’s. Danialle and Erica were brave and got hot ones, but I decided to play it safe. After lunch we hit the beach. It was cold! The wind had really picked up and it wasn’t that warm anyway, but we were determined not to let that stop us. We threw our towels out and picked a spot to chat. Heather fell asleep for a little bit, but the rest of us had some good conversations. I also tried digging a small hole for my belly and laying on my stomach. My pregnant friend Kelly from work said that was how she first felt her baby move. I think it worked for me too. Have you ever layed on a body part in a weird way and you can feel your heartbeat thumping in that body part? It felt like that in my lower abdomen. Only, it wasn’t a consistent, “thump-thump-thump.” It was more like “thump-thump……thump.” Also, if I moved or sat up and then layed back down, I’d feel it again. I’m calling that baby movement. After the beach, we checked into the hotel and all showered and changed. Then we went to Leona’s for dinner. It was ok, but not as great as last time we ate there. After dinner, we walked around a bit until the stores closed up and then went back to the hotel to chat some more and sleep.
Saturday was a day of shopping. We went to Gurnee Mills outlet mall. We got there around 11 and shopped until 6 p.m. Again, I’m glad pregnancy limited my spending on clothing. There was one maternity store and I did by something, but one outfit isn’t too bad. Also, Danialle and Erica tried on the fake bellies at the store. We got a cute picture of us all with bellies. Where I really spent the cash though was at the Carter’s baby store outlet. Everything was so incredibly marked down. They had these $40 diaper bag’s that were only $10 with an additional $35 purchase, so I wanted to be sure I spent $35. I ended up buying 3 long sleeve sleepers, a cute ducky onesie, a super soft blanket, booties, and 2 bibs plus the diaper bag for about $60. After shopping until the verge of dropping, we headed back towards the hotel and decided on Outback for dinner. We got in relatively quickly and had this bizarre waiter. He was Native American, at least bi-sexual, and told us all about his new “Spiritual Love.” He made it interesting though and we spent two hours at the restaurant. It was 10:00 by the time we left and after all that shopping, I was pooped. We all went to bed fairly early.
Sunday morning we got up said our goodbyes and Danialle took me back to the airport. Luckily this trip wasn’t as bad as the way there, except one of my bags didn’t make it back. I checked two, but only one made the plane. I headed home and spent the rest of the afternoon being lazy. My bag was delivered around 7:30 p.m. officially ending my GWO trip.
Spending time with the girls is so great.
Thursday, July 22, 2004
Leaving for the Weekend
I wanted to get one last post in before the weekend. I’m leaving in 3 hours for Chicago and GWO V! I’m so excited. My personal life has been going great, but work is stressing me out! I just want to complete forget it all for a few days. My girlfriends are my lifesavers. I don’t live close to my family and while I’ve made new (and awesome) friends here, I still feel like these weekends breathe a little life back into me. We’ve got tons planned, but my prediction is we’ll do about 75% of it, and spend the rest of the time talking and catching up. I don’t care. We could hole up in a hotel room for three days and never leave and I think I’d still come away thinking it was a great weekend. Well, I’d like to get my desk mostly cleared off before I go, so I better get to work.
Sunday, July 18, 2004
Weekend Update
This weekend Eric's mom came to visit. We had a nice weekend. Friday she got in before we made it home for work and hung out on the deck for a bit. When we got home we chatted for a bit and then had dinner at The Melting Pot. She loved it, and it was fun to get to share a new experience with her. After dinner, we headed to Wal-Mart to walk off dessert and then went home and watched a movie. I fell asleep during it, and then decided to crash for the evening.
Saturday, Eric had to go into work for a quick appointment. The appointment got pushed back, however, so we met him and spent some time in a scrapbooking store nearby. Donna wasn't feeling well (headache) though, so when Eric had to go back to the office, we went home and took a nap. I wasn't complaining, I love to nap! Eric came home and woke us up and we did some shopping. We went by a car dealership that was advertising some deals and test drove a Chevy Equinox. We were interested, but in my car and didn't want to subject Donna to an evening of haggling, so decided to meet up with the salesperson Monday to discuss. Then we headed downtown to check out the Jazz & Rib Fest. We parked in my building (for free) and started walking to the festival. A big storm came up though, and we had to duck into a covered opening of a building to wait it out. When the rain started letting up, we decided to head back to the car and skip the festival. We then went to Texas Roadhouse and had dinner. After dinner we drove by another dealership to price some SUV's. After that we decided to go browse at Babies R Us. I can't wait until we get to register. It will be so much fun! I'm starting to feel like I belong in that store now. I saw some bigger bellies than mine, but I count! We also have decided on a theme for the baby's room. We are going to decorate in ducks. If it's a boy, we'll paint the room blue and stencil yellow ducks on the wall. If it's a girl or we can't teel, we'll paint the room green. Either way, we'll do plain yellow bedding and make some yellow curtains. We'll use other duck items to decorate. It should be really cute. We also stopped by Baby Depot inside of Burlington Coat Factory. After they closed, we headed home and watched another movie.
Sunday morning we got up around 9:30 a.m. and just visited until Donna left around noon. After she left, Eric and I went car shopping again. We went back to the Toyota dealership and test drove a used 2001 Chevy Tahoe they had on the lot. While the price looked nice, it seemed like more vehicle than we need and I couldn't quit thinking about the gas prices. Then we moved over to a 2001 Toyota Highlander. I love Toyota's and after driving it, we decided to do some paperwork. Eric is leasing his car and when they ran the payoff versus his appraisal, his negative equity was close to $6,000! We knew we might have some to deal with, but that amount put the Highlander (and every other SUV we'd been looking at) out of our price range. So, we decided that an SUV may not be a viable option right now. We then drove over to the Dodge dealership and ended up buying a 2004 Intrepid. It's used, but still under warranty, etc. and we got a great deal. It's also pretty loaded (leather seats, etc.), so it's a really nice ride. Eric's happy and now we have 2 family cars, so we should be set for a while.
That's about it for the weekend. I'm really excited about the nursery now. I haven't really seen any duck bedding patterns, so I think this idea is fairly original. I'm ok with using solid color bedding and getting the theme in other places, so it's going to be fun to really put the nursery together. I do want a mobile though and I haven't seen any with only ducks at the baby stores. I did some E-bay research though and found one I'm bidding on. Three more days and it'll be mine!
On another note, less than a week until I get to see my best friends! I'm so excited. I thought things were turning around for Erica on the baby front, but it looks like today that may have changed. Darn it! I know she'd be a great Mom, so I want her to get to start soon. I haven't got updates from the other girls I'll be seeing next week, but I'm sure I'll be completely caught up by this time next week. One of my other friends that can't come to our weekend get together, just told me she may be moving up her plans for starting a family. They aren't going to put any effort into it, but they are going to start letting nature take it's course next month! I just want all of my friends to be pregnant too. It would be so great if all three of us could be pregnant together for a few months at least!
Ok, I better end for tonight. I'll update this week if anything good happens and next week, you'll get the scoop on GWO in Chicago!
Saturday, Eric had to go into work for a quick appointment. The appointment got pushed back, however, so we met him and spent some time in a scrapbooking store nearby. Donna wasn't feeling well (headache) though, so when Eric had to go back to the office, we went home and took a nap. I wasn't complaining, I love to nap! Eric came home and woke us up and we did some shopping. We went by a car dealership that was advertising some deals and test drove a Chevy Equinox. We were interested, but in my car and didn't want to subject Donna to an evening of haggling, so decided to meet up with the salesperson Monday to discuss. Then we headed downtown to check out the Jazz & Rib Fest. We parked in my building (for free) and started walking to the festival. A big storm came up though, and we had to duck into a covered opening of a building to wait it out. When the rain started letting up, we decided to head back to the car and skip the festival. We then went to Texas Roadhouse and had dinner. After dinner we drove by another dealership to price some SUV's. After that we decided to go browse at Babies R Us. I can't wait until we get to register. It will be so much fun! I'm starting to feel like I belong in that store now. I saw some bigger bellies than mine, but I count! We also have decided on a theme for the baby's room. We are going to decorate in ducks. If it's a boy, we'll paint the room blue and stencil yellow ducks on the wall. If it's a girl or we can't teel, we'll paint the room green. Either way, we'll do plain yellow bedding and make some yellow curtains. We'll use other duck items to decorate. It should be really cute. We also stopped by Baby Depot inside of Burlington Coat Factory. After they closed, we headed home and watched another movie.
Sunday morning we got up around 9:30 a.m. and just visited until Donna left around noon. After she left, Eric and I went car shopping again. We went back to the Toyota dealership and test drove a used 2001 Chevy Tahoe they had on the lot. While the price looked nice, it seemed like more vehicle than we need and I couldn't quit thinking about the gas prices. Then we moved over to a 2001 Toyota Highlander. I love Toyota's and after driving it, we decided to do some paperwork. Eric is leasing his car and when they ran the payoff versus his appraisal, his negative equity was close to $6,000! We knew we might have some to deal with, but that amount put the Highlander (and every other SUV we'd been looking at) out of our price range. So, we decided that an SUV may not be a viable option right now. We then drove over to the Dodge dealership and ended up buying a 2004 Intrepid. It's used, but still under warranty, etc. and we got a great deal. It's also pretty loaded (leather seats, etc.), so it's a really nice ride. Eric's happy and now we have 2 family cars, so we should be set for a while.
That's about it for the weekend. I'm really excited about the nursery now. I haven't really seen any duck bedding patterns, so I think this idea is fairly original. I'm ok with using solid color bedding and getting the theme in other places, so it's going to be fun to really put the nursery together. I do want a mobile though and I haven't seen any with only ducks at the baby stores. I did some E-bay research though and found one I'm bidding on. Three more days and it'll be mine!
On another note, less than a week until I get to see my best friends! I'm so excited. I thought things were turning around for Erica on the baby front, but it looks like today that may have changed. Darn it! I know she'd be a great Mom, so I want her to get to start soon. I haven't got updates from the other girls I'll be seeing next week, but I'm sure I'll be completely caught up by this time next week. One of my other friends that can't come to our weekend get together, just told me she may be moving up her plans for starting a family. They aren't going to put any effort into it, but they are going to start letting nature take it's course next month! I just want all of my friends to be pregnant too. It would be so great if all three of us could be pregnant together for a few months at least!
Ok, I better end for tonight. I'll update this week if anything good happens and next week, you'll get the scoop on GWO in Chicago!
Eighteen Weeks, 1 Day - The Nineteenth Week
My Symptoms
Probably my most noticable symptom this week is that I haven't been feeling movement. I'm still pretty sure it's what I felt before, but the baby's been quite this week. I've still got the Doppler though, so I know everything is ok, but I'm just not feeling anything. I've also noticed a little bit of heartburn. Nothing serious, but sometimes when I lay down or lounge on the couch, I feel like I'm not allowing my digestive tract enough room. This will be my last week with the Doppler. I'm taking it with me to my Girl's Weekend, but then sending it back next Monday. The only other thing is that it seems like I'm looking much more pregnant. Now the belly really looks like a pregnant belly, even without clothes. I think I've been gaining weight too (although in reasonable amounts). I can't think of much else. Hopefully, this week I'll get some more kicks or baby movements.
The Baby
Crown-to-rump length of the growing fetus is 5.2 to 6 inches by this week. Your baby weighs about 7 ounces. It's incredible to think your baby will increase its weight more than 15 times between now and delivery.
What's Going On with Your Baby? The fetus is about 8 inches long, 8 ounces in weight, and covered in vernix, a white, cheesy "cream" that protects her skin from the long bath in amniotic fluid. Preemies are covered in vernix at birth -- "posties" have almost none.
Your baby weighs about 8 1/2 ounces, and he measures 6 inches, head to bottom — about the length of a small zucchini. His arms and legs are in the right proportions to each other and the rest of his body now. His kidneys continue to make urine, and the hair on his scalp is sprouting. This is a crucial time for sensory development: Your baby's brain is designating specialized areas for smell, taste, hearing, vision, and touch. If your baby is a girl, she has an astonishing six million eggs in her ovaries. They'll dwindle to fewer than two million by the time she's born.
This is an impressive week for growth! The baby will increase in weight to 8 ounces (227 grams)! If you are having a girl, her ovaries now contain primitive egg cells. Lanugo appears all over the baby's body. This fine hair will remain until birth draws nearer. Sometimes you can still see some on the baby's face and ears after birth. Permanent teeth buds are forming behind the already formed milk teeth buds.
The Mom
You can feel your uterus about 0.5 inch below your umbilicus. Your total weight gain at this point is between 8 and 14 pounds. Of this weight, only about 7 ounces is your baby! The placenta weighs about 6 ounces; the amniotic fluid weighs another 11 ounces. The uterus weights 11 ounces. Your breasts have each increased in weight by 6.3 ounces.
"Your feets too big!" Suddenly, your shoes don’t fit! Some of this might be due to water retention, and some of it is due to the general loosening of ligaments happening throughout your body. Many women's feet grow half a shoe size per child and, in most cases, this change is permanent.
You're just a week shy of the halfway mark. You may notice some achiness in your lower abdomen (perhaps extending to your groin) or even a quick, sharp, stabbing pain on one or both sides, especially when you change position or at the end of an active day. This is round ligament pain, and it's caused by the stretching of the muscles and ligaments that support your growing uterus. It's nothing to be alarmed about, but if the pain continues even when you're resting or becomes persistent and severe, call your practitioner.You may also have noticed some skin changes lately. Are the palms of your hands red? Nothing to worry about — it's from increased estrogen. Patches of darkened skin are also common during pregnancy. When they show up around your upper lip, upper cheeks and forehead, they're called chloasma, or the "mask of pregnancy." You may see these splotches on your arms or other areas that have been exposed to the sun. Your nipples, freckles, scars, underarms, inner thighs, and vulva may also darken during pregnancy. That darkened line running from your belly button to your pubic bone is called the linea nigra, or "dark line." All of this darkening is due to a temporary increase in melanin, the substance that colors your hair, skin, and eyes. For most women, these darkened spots will fade shortly after delivery. In the meantime, protect yourself from the sun, which intensifies the pigment changes. Cover up, wear a brimmed hat, and use sunscreen when you're outdoors. And if you're self-conscious about your "mask," a little concealing makeup can work wonders.
If you have not looked into childbirth classes, now is the time to do so. Childbirth education is a great way of informing yourself about pregnancy, labor and birth. There are many different types of classes available and many different types of teachers. Enroll now before the spaces are all gone! Medical research indicates that participants in childbirth classes tend to have easier, less stressful births.
Probably my most noticable symptom this week is that I haven't been feeling movement. I'm still pretty sure it's what I felt before, but the baby's been quite this week. I've still got the Doppler though, so I know everything is ok, but I'm just not feeling anything. I've also noticed a little bit of heartburn. Nothing serious, but sometimes when I lay down or lounge on the couch, I feel like I'm not allowing my digestive tract enough room. This will be my last week with the Doppler. I'm taking it with me to my Girl's Weekend, but then sending it back next Monday. The only other thing is that it seems like I'm looking much more pregnant. Now the belly really looks like a pregnant belly, even without clothes. I think I've been gaining weight too (although in reasonable amounts). I can't think of much else. Hopefully, this week I'll get some more kicks or baby movements.
The Baby
Crown-to-rump length of the growing fetus is 5.2 to 6 inches by this week. Your baby weighs about 7 ounces. It's incredible to think your baby will increase its weight more than 15 times between now and delivery.
What's Going On with Your Baby? The fetus is about 8 inches long, 8 ounces in weight, and covered in vernix, a white, cheesy "cream" that protects her skin from the long bath in amniotic fluid. Preemies are covered in vernix at birth -- "posties" have almost none.
Your baby weighs about 8 1/2 ounces, and he measures 6 inches, head to bottom — about the length of a small zucchini. His arms and legs are in the right proportions to each other and the rest of his body now. His kidneys continue to make urine, and the hair on his scalp is sprouting. This is a crucial time for sensory development: Your baby's brain is designating specialized areas for smell, taste, hearing, vision, and touch. If your baby is a girl, she has an astonishing six million eggs in her ovaries. They'll dwindle to fewer than two million by the time she's born.
This is an impressive week for growth! The baby will increase in weight to 8 ounces (227 grams)! If you are having a girl, her ovaries now contain primitive egg cells. Lanugo appears all over the baby's body. This fine hair will remain until birth draws nearer. Sometimes you can still see some on the baby's face and ears after birth. Permanent teeth buds are forming behind the already formed milk teeth buds.
The Mom
You can feel your uterus about 0.5 inch below your umbilicus. Your total weight gain at this point is between 8 and 14 pounds. Of this weight, only about 7 ounces is your baby! The placenta weighs about 6 ounces; the amniotic fluid weighs another 11 ounces. The uterus weights 11 ounces. Your breasts have each increased in weight by 6.3 ounces.
"Your feets too big!" Suddenly, your shoes don’t fit! Some of this might be due to water retention, and some of it is due to the general loosening of ligaments happening throughout your body. Many women's feet grow half a shoe size per child and, in most cases, this change is permanent.
You're just a week shy of the halfway mark. You may notice some achiness in your lower abdomen (perhaps extending to your groin) or even a quick, sharp, stabbing pain on one or both sides, especially when you change position or at the end of an active day. This is round ligament pain, and it's caused by the stretching of the muscles and ligaments that support your growing uterus. It's nothing to be alarmed about, but if the pain continues even when you're resting or becomes persistent and severe, call your practitioner.You may also have noticed some skin changes lately. Are the palms of your hands red? Nothing to worry about — it's from increased estrogen. Patches of darkened skin are also common during pregnancy. When they show up around your upper lip, upper cheeks and forehead, they're called chloasma, or the "mask of pregnancy." You may see these splotches on your arms or other areas that have been exposed to the sun. Your nipples, freckles, scars, underarms, inner thighs, and vulva may also darken during pregnancy. That darkened line running from your belly button to your pubic bone is called the linea nigra, or "dark line." All of this darkening is due to a temporary increase in melanin, the substance that colors your hair, skin, and eyes. For most women, these darkened spots will fade shortly after delivery. In the meantime, protect yourself from the sun, which intensifies the pigment changes. Cover up, wear a brimmed hat, and use sunscreen when you're outdoors. And if you're self-conscious about your "mask," a little concealing makeup can work wonders.
If you have not looked into childbirth classes, now is the time to do so. Childbirth education is a great way of informing yourself about pregnancy, labor and birth. There are many different types of classes available and many different types of teachers. Enroll now before the spaces are all gone! Medical research indicates that participants in childbirth classes tend to have easier, less stressful births.
Thursday, July 15, 2004
Tales from the Office
I don’t post much about work. But, there’s been enough going on that I feel I need to make a comment. I’ll start by saying that I’ve been happy with my career choices up to this point. I work in Insurance and work for the largest Insurance Brokerage firm in the world. I majored in Insurance and Risk Management and actually moved to Columbus for this job. Over the last year I think I’ve found my niche in the company and have really gotten into a groove as far as my work. I love the work that I do, I’ve loved the people I work with, I feel challenged by my responsibilities, I feel that people appreciate my work and respect my knowledge, and I feel like this company is very generous to their employees (working hours, vacation, summer hours, pay raises, bonuses, etc.). However, in the last year, my particular office has been through a lot. We’ve had some management changes. One of the head regional people started his own firm and started picking off people to work for him. We’ve also faced a lot of competitive pressure from other firms. Our office has been hit really hard lately. We’ve lost some key business and even more key people. Yesterday, I overheard someone say that we’ve lost 23 people since January. This office had about 60-70 people at it’s peak and currently has 52 employees. Obviously, we replaced some of the people, but in other places we have big holes.
About a month ago, after a trend of losing business to competitors, they had a reduction in staff of 8 people to help “cut expenses.” One of those people was a very good friend of mine and an extremely hard worker. It seemed really unfair how random the reduction was. I know I could have picked some other people that would have been better choices in my mind. Anyway, things kept plugging away, and then last week, another very key senior person left to go to a competitor. I was surprised and disappointed, but what can you do? Then yesterday, my direct supervisor quit to go to the same competitor. I took it really hard. I’ve worked really closely with him for the last year. He is a really great guy. He was a great boss. He always made sure to challenge me and let me prove I could handle assignments. He was really accessible when I had questions, and I was thinking of him as a mentor. He’s a pretty young guy, and has advanced pretty far pretty quickly. I consider myself bright and was hoping under his guidance to follow a similar career path.
Anyway, now he’s gone and we have to pick up the pieces around here. I’m still a bit in limbo. Every account that I work on, he was also involved with. Some of them are really complex and he did most of the big picture work while I assisted and learned, and others he let me run with and just backed me up when I had questions or needed help. Now, I’m not sure what will happen. With another year of experience, I might have been able to step in and say, “I can handle all this. Let me take over his book of business.” But, I don’t think I’m quite ready yet. I’m hoping they’ll give me a bit more responsibility and let me learn what I haven’t yet on the job, but with all the turmoil in the office, they may want to bring in a more senior person to make the client more comfortable. I’m only 25 and in this business, I’m a kid. Clients want a little grey hair on the account and if we walk in and tell them I’m handling it, I’m not sure they’d all see it as a positive. Not to mention I’ve got a 2 month break coming up in the future.
I’m not really sure what my future holds right now. If they make cuts again, I think I’m safe, but if not…I could find another job. I’m qualified and educated and I do know a lot of people at competitors. I’m hoping the people here will see this as an opportunity and give me the chance to step up and show I can do more. Or, I could be getting calls from those competitors myself offering me another opportunity. Long term, I believe this is a great place to be, but I’m also craving a bit of stability right now. I guess for now, I’ll keep coming to work. I’ll do my job to the best of my ability and see what happens next.
About a month ago, after a trend of losing business to competitors, they had a reduction in staff of 8 people to help “cut expenses.” One of those people was a very good friend of mine and an extremely hard worker. It seemed really unfair how random the reduction was. I know I could have picked some other people that would have been better choices in my mind. Anyway, things kept plugging away, and then last week, another very key senior person left to go to a competitor. I was surprised and disappointed, but what can you do? Then yesterday, my direct supervisor quit to go to the same competitor. I took it really hard. I’ve worked really closely with him for the last year. He is a really great guy. He was a great boss. He always made sure to challenge me and let me prove I could handle assignments. He was really accessible when I had questions, and I was thinking of him as a mentor. He’s a pretty young guy, and has advanced pretty far pretty quickly. I consider myself bright and was hoping under his guidance to follow a similar career path.
Anyway, now he’s gone and we have to pick up the pieces around here. I’m still a bit in limbo. Every account that I work on, he was also involved with. Some of them are really complex and he did most of the big picture work while I assisted and learned, and others he let me run with and just backed me up when I had questions or needed help. Now, I’m not sure what will happen. With another year of experience, I might have been able to step in and say, “I can handle all this. Let me take over his book of business.” But, I don’t think I’m quite ready yet. I’m hoping they’ll give me a bit more responsibility and let me learn what I haven’t yet on the job, but with all the turmoil in the office, they may want to bring in a more senior person to make the client more comfortable. I’m only 25 and in this business, I’m a kid. Clients want a little grey hair on the account and if we walk in and tell them I’m handling it, I’m not sure they’d all see it as a positive. Not to mention I’ve got a 2 month break coming up in the future.
I’m not really sure what my future holds right now. If they make cuts again, I think I’m safe, but if not…I could find another job. I’m qualified and educated and I do know a lot of people at competitors. I’m hoping the people here will see this as an opportunity and give me the chance to step up and show I can do more. Or, I could be getting calls from those competitors myself offering me another opportunity. Long term, I believe this is a great place to be, but I’m also craving a bit of stability right now. I guess for now, I’ll keep coming to work. I’ll do my job to the best of my ability and see what happens next.
Tuesday, July 13, 2004
Pretty Sure
I’m now about the 90% sure that at least some of these feelings I’ve been having are the baby. In the evenings before I go to bed, I use the Doppler to listen to the baby. With the heartbeat easier to find, I am trying out other areas, listening for the bubble noises (meaning movement). Last night there were a couple of times that I heard the bubbles in the same area I was feeling the “flutters.” That made me think, that this could be it. Then after I’d been asleep, I had to get up around 1:00 a.m. to use the restroom. When I went back to bed, I was feeling something that was more localized in one area, rather than a random fluttery feeling. As I was drifting back to sleep, I was thinking, now that was probably a kick. It’s like a fluttery, poking feeling, but in a specific place, where the other things I’ve been feeling are just randomly in my lower abdomen. I could point to where I felt this, the other ones, are not as distinct. I’m sure some of the time, I’ve been confusing the digestive process with movement, but I’m pretty sure last night, was a kick.
Sunday, July 11, 2004
17 weeks, 1 day - The Eighteenth Week
My Symptoms
Not much new to report this week. I'm still undecided on the baby movement thing. I'm probably feeling something, but it's not that definate yet. I'm still on the early side of the "normal" window though, so I expect the next couple of weeks to become more obvious. Less than 3 weeks until my next ultrasound though!
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length of your growing baby is 5 to 5.6 inches by this week. Weight of the fetus is about 5.25 ounces. Your baby is continuing to grow and to develop, but now the rapid growth rate slows down a little.
Those bones are hardening, and the legs are growing longer. The ears are almost in position ("What big EARS you have, baby!" "The better to hear you with, my mother!")
Head to bottom, your baby is approximately 5 1/2 inches long (about the length of a large sweet potato) and she weighs almost 7 ounces. She's busy flexing her arms and legs — movements that you'll likely start noticing more and more. Her blood vessels are visible through her thin skin and her ears are now in position and stand out from her head. Myelin (a protective covering) is beginning to form around her nerves, a process that will continue for a year after she's born. If you're having a girl, her uterus and Fallopian tubes are formed and in place. If your baby is a boy, his genitals are noticeable, though he may hide them from you during an ultrasound.
At 20.5 cms or 8.1 inches total length, your baby is growing rapidly. S/he weighs about 7 ounces (198 grams). The bones are continuing the ossification process. The pads of the fingers and toes are formed and the fingerprints are developing as well.
The Mom
You can feel your uterus just below your bellybutton. If you put your fingers sideways and measure, it is about two finger-widtsh (1 inch) below your bellybutton. Your uterus is the size of a canteloupe or a little larger. Your total weight gain to this point should be 10 to 13 pounds. However, this can vary widely.
If this is your first pregnancy, you may FINALLY be feeling movement! Your skin may be reflecting the pregnancy by darkening in spots. This "mask" of dark pigment around the eyes, nose, and cheeks is called the chloasma, and will slowly fade once you deliver.
Bigger, more comfortable clothes are a must now as your appetite and waistline increase. Look for specially designed maternity clothes that can accommodate your expanding belly. You may have heard that it's best to lie on your left side during your last two trimesters. Here's why: When you lie on your back, your uterus can compress your pelvic veins — in particular, the inferior vena cava, the vein that returns blood from the lower half of your body back to your heart. Lying on your left side helps remove this pressure. Try placing a pillow behind you, or under your hip or leg for comfort. Your cardiovascular system is undergoing dramatic changes, and during your second trimester your blood pressure is probably lower than usual. Don't spring up too fast from a lying or sitting position or you might feel a little dizzy. If you haven't already, you'll probably have an ultrasound done sometime this trimester (usually between 16 and 20 weeks). This painless procedure helps your practitioner check how your baby's growing, screen for certain birth defects, check the placenta and umbilical cord, determine whether the due date you're working with is accurate, and see how many babies you're carrying. During the exam, you might see your baby moving around or sucking her thumb. Bring your partner along, and be sure to ask for a printout for your baby's first photo album!
Sleeping may be increasingly difficult now, as your body grows. Try propping yourself with pillows to help you find a more comfortable sleeping position. You might also try doing pelvic tilts before bed, and always urinate before laying down.
Not much new to report this week. I'm still undecided on the baby movement thing. I'm probably feeling something, but it's not that definate yet. I'm still on the early side of the "normal" window though, so I expect the next couple of weeks to become more obvious. Less than 3 weeks until my next ultrasound though!
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length of your growing baby is 5 to 5.6 inches by this week. Weight of the fetus is about 5.25 ounces. Your baby is continuing to grow and to develop, but now the rapid growth rate slows down a little.
Those bones are hardening, and the legs are growing longer. The ears are almost in position ("What big EARS you have, baby!" "The better to hear you with, my mother!")
Head to bottom, your baby is approximately 5 1/2 inches long (about the length of a large sweet potato) and she weighs almost 7 ounces. She's busy flexing her arms and legs — movements that you'll likely start noticing more and more. Her blood vessels are visible through her thin skin and her ears are now in position and stand out from her head. Myelin (a protective covering) is beginning to form around her nerves, a process that will continue for a year after she's born. If you're having a girl, her uterus and Fallopian tubes are formed and in place. If your baby is a boy, his genitals are noticeable, though he may hide them from you during an ultrasound.
At 20.5 cms or 8.1 inches total length, your baby is growing rapidly. S/he weighs about 7 ounces (198 grams). The bones are continuing the ossification process. The pads of the fingers and toes are formed and the fingerprints are developing as well.
The Mom
You can feel your uterus just below your bellybutton. If you put your fingers sideways and measure, it is about two finger-widtsh (1 inch) below your bellybutton. Your uterus is the size of a canteloupe or a little larger. Your total weight gain to this point should be 10 to 13 pounds. However, this can vary widely.
If this is your first pregnancy, you may FINALLY be feeling movement! Your skin may be reflecting the pregnancy by darkening in spots. This "mask" of dark pigment around the eyes, nose, and cheeks is called the chloasma, and will slowly fade once you deliver.
Bigger, more comfortable clothes are a must now as your appetite and waistline increase. Look for specially designed maternity clothes that can accommodate your expanding belly. You may have heard that it's best to lie on your left side during your last two trimesters. Here's why: When you lie on your back, your uterus can compress your pelvic veins — in particular, the inferior vena cava, the vein that returns blood from the lower half of your body back to your heart. Lying on your left side helps remove this pressure. Try placing a pillow behind you, or under your hip or leg for comfort. Your cardiovascular system is undergoing dramatic changes, and during your second trimester your blood pressure is probably lower than usual. Don't spring up too fast from a lying or sitting position or you might feel a little dizzy. If you haven't already, you'll probably have an ultrasound done sometime this trimester (usually between 16 and 20 weeks). This painless procedure helps your practitioner check how your baby's growing, screen for certain birth defects, check the placenta and umbilical cord, determine whether the due date you're working with is accurate, and see how many babies you're carrying. During the exam, you might see your baby moving around or sucking her thumb. Bring your partner along, and be sure to ask for a printout for your baby's first photo album!
Sleeping may be increasingly difficult now, as your body grows. Try propping yourself with pillows to help you find a more comfortable sleeping position. You might also try doing pelvic tilts before bed, and always urinate before laying down.
Measurements (16w5d)
I've been meaning to post these. These were taken at 16 weeks, 5 days. The last measurements were 14 weeks, 1 day.
Before = (B) Last = (L) Current =(C)
Weight - 150.5 (B), 151.0 (L), 153.0 (C) = +2.5 pound
Bicep - 11 3/4 (B), 11 3/4 (L), 11 1/2 (C) = -.5
Chest - 35 1/2 (B), 38 1/4 (L), 38 1/4 (C) = +2 3/4 inches
Waist (at smallest point) - 30 (B), 31 1/2 (L), 31 1/2 (C) = +1 1/2 inches
Waist (at belly button) - 32 1/2 (B), 36 (L), 36 (C) = +3 1/2 inches
Hips - 38 (B), 38 1/2 (L), 39 1/4 (C) = +1 1/4
Thigh - 23 (B), 22 1/4 (L), 22 1/2 (C) = - 1/2 inch
Calf - 14 (B), 14 (L), 13 3/4 (C) = -1/4
Also, a new belly shot.
Before = (B) Last = (L) Current =(C)
Weight - 150.5 (B), 151.0 (L), 153.0 (C) = +2.5 pound
Bicep - 11 3/4 (B), 11 3/4 (L), 11 1/2 (C) = -.5
Chest - 35 1/2 (B), 38 1/4 (L), 38 1/4 (C) = +2 3/4 inches
Waist (at smallest point) - 30 (B), 31 1/2 (L), 31 1/2 (C) = +1 1/2 inches
Waist (at belly button) - 32 1/2 (B), 36 (L), 36 (C) = +3 1/2 inches
Hips - 38 (B), 38 1/2 (L), 39 1/4 (C) = +1 1/4
Thigh - 23 (B), 22 1/4 (L), 22 1/2 (C) = - 1/2 inch
Calf - 14 (B), 14 (L), 13 3/4 (C) = -1/4
Also, a new belly shot.
Wednesday, July 07, 2004
Sixteen Weeks, 4 days - The Seventeenth Week
My Symptoms
It's been a pretty good week. Very fast. My possible interesting news? I think, maybe, I've felt the baby moving. When it gets stronger I'll probably know for sure, but I've been feeling some feelings that feel "different" than the normal stuff going on in my belly area (digestive rumbles, hunger pangs, gas). The first time was sometime this weekend (I think Sunday). I was eating lunch at the couch and had my plate on the coffee table. I was leaning forward and felt something weird. Then later I went upstairs to take a nap and layed on my stomach. With some pressure on my stomach it seemed like I was feeling a lot going on. I'm not sure I'm feeling the baby, but it's a definate possiblity, since I've felt the same sort of things for the last couple of days. I'm not really sure how to describe it. It's kind of like a cross between gas bubbles and when your stomach turn over (think rollercoaster). I know that doesn't sound pleasant, but it's just like some kind of involuntary movement or motion. I'm sure in the near future it will be actual nudges or poking. Assuming what I think I feel now actually is baby related. Soon enough it'll be obvious. I also owe you another picture. I took measurements this morning, I'll try to do a picture tomorrow. Since the below mentions weight gain, I'll point out I've now gained 2.5 pounds. Ok, here's what the books and internet say is going on.
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length of your baby is 4.4 to 4.8 inches. Fetal weight has doubled in 2 weeks and is about 3.5 ounces By this week, your baby is about the size of your hand spread open wide. Fat begins to form during this week and the weeks that follow. Fat is important to the body's heat production and metabolism. At 17 weeks of development, water makes up about 3 ounces and fat .018 ounce of your baby's body. In a baby at term, fat makes up about 5.25 pounds of the total average weight of 7.7 pounds.
The fetus is about 6 and 1/4 inches long and weighs 4-5 ounces, about the same size as the placenta. The eyes are more forward than on either side of the face now. Your baby's ears have started to pop from his head and lanugo is beginning to appear on your baby's head and body. What a cutie!
Your baby weighs about 5 ounces now, and he's around 5 inches long — about the size of a large onion. He can move his joints, and his skeleton — until now rubbery cartilage — is starting to harden to bone. His sense of hearing is also developing. The umbilical cord, his lifeline to the placenta, is growing stronger and thicker.
Your baby is forming brown fat deposits under his or her skin, by the end of pregnancy this will account for 2-6% of their total body weight. This will help them maintain their body temperature when they are born. The baby weighs in at about 5 ounces (142 grams). This means that the baby now weighs more than the placenta. No new structures have formed. Loud noises outside may actually cause the baby to startle.
The Mom
Your uterus is 1.5 to 2 inches below your bellybutton. You are showing more now and have an obvious swelling in your lower abdomen. By this time, expanding or maternity clothing is a must for comforts sake. When your partner gives you a hug, he may feel the difference in your lower abdomen. The rest of your body is still changing. A total 5 to 10 pound gain by this point in your pregnancy is normal. You have felt your baby move, or you will soon. You may not feel it every day. As pregnancy progresses, movements become stronger and probably more frequent.
Who am I? Where was I going? And where did I put that list of things I should remember? Pregnancy brings forgetfulness -- as usual, the culprit is hormones. You’ll get your brain back someday (hopefully, sooner than later!). Remember to laugh and you’ll muddle through. Muddle through what? What were we talking about? Each time you go to the doctor or clinic, they dip a strip of paper in a cup of your urine to measure your blood sugar level. What’s with that blood sugar test, anyway? It’s to make sure you’re not developing gestational diabetes, a condition that affects around one to two percent of all pregnant women. When blood sugar levels are controlled (through diet and sometimes medication), women can have normal pregnancies and normal, healthy babies. On average, most moms are feeling fetal movement by now. Kick, little one, kick!
With more weight up high and out in front of your body, you may feel a bit off-balance as you walk around. Store away your high heels and wear low-heeled shoes to reduce your risk of taking a tumble.You're likely to feel protective of your tummy, and that's good. Trauma to your abdomen could be harmful to your baby and dangerous to you, so be sure to buckle up when you're driving. Keep the lap portion of the seat belt under your belly and very snug across your hips for maximum protection.
Your uterus is now about halfway between your pubic bone and navel. Your secretions all over your body may increase, due to the increased blood volume. So if you are sweating more, have nasal congestion, or are suffering from increased vaginal discharge this is nothing to worry about and will go away after the birth of the baby.
It's been a pretty good week. Very fast. My possible interesting news? I think, maybe, I've felt the baby moving. When it gets stronger I'll probably know for sure, but I've been feeling some feelings that feel "different" than the normal stuff going on in my belly area (digestive rumbles, hunger pangs, gas). The first time was sometime this weekend (I think Sunday). I was eating lunch at the couch and had my plate on the coffee table. I was leaning forward and felt something weird. Then later I went upstairs to take a nap and layed on my stomach. With some pressure on my stomach it seemed like I was feeling a lot going on. I'm not sure I'm feeling the baby, but it's a definate possiblity, since I've felt the same sort of things for the last couple of days. I'm not really sure how to describe it. It's kind of like a cross between gas bubbles and when your stomach turn over (think rollercoaster). I know that doesn't sound pleasant, but it's just like some kind of involuntary movement or motion. I'm sure in the near future it will be actual nudges or poking. Assuming what I think I feel now actually is baby related. Soon enough it'll be obvious. I also owe you another picture. I took measurements this morning, I'll try to do a picture tomorrow. Since the below mentions weight gain, I'll point out I've now gained 2.5 pounds. Ok, here's what the books and internet say is going on.
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length of your baby is 4.4 to 4.8 inches. Fetal weight has doubled in 2 weeks and is about 3.5 ounces By this week, your baby is about the size of your hand spread open wide. Fat begins to form during this week and the weeks that follow. Fat is important to the body's heat production and metabolism. At 17 weeks of development, water makes up about 3 ounces and fat .018 ounce of your baby's body. In a baby at term, fat makes up about 5.25 pounds of the total average weight of 7.7 pounds.
The fetus is about 6 and 1/4 inches long and weighs 4-5 ounces, about the same size as the placenta. The eyes are more forward than on either side of the face now. Your baby's ears have started to pop from his head and lanugo is beginning to appear on your baby's head and body. What a cutie!
Your baby weighs about 5 ounces now, and he's around 5 inches long — about the size of a large onion. He can move his joints, and his skeleton — until now rubbery cartilage — is starting to harden to bone. His sense of hearing is also developing. The umbilical cord, his lifeline to the placenta, is growing stronger and thicker.
Your baby is forming brown fat deposits under his or her skin, by the end of pregnancy this will account for 2-6% of their total body weight. This will help them maintain their body temperature when they are born. The baby weighs in at about 5 ounces (142 grams). This means that the baby now weighs more than the placenta. No new structures have formed. Loud noises outside may actually cause the baby to startle.
The Mom
Your uterus is 1.5 to 2 inches below your bellybutton. You are showing more now and have an obvious swelling in your lower abdomen. By this time, expanding or maternity clothing is a must for comforts sake. When your partner gives you a hug, he may feel the difference in your lower abdomen. The rest of your body is still changing. A total 5 to 10 pound gain by this point in your pregnancy is normal. You have felt your baby move, or you will soon. You may not feel it every day. As pregnancy progresses, movements become stronger and probably more frequent.
Who am I? Where was I going? And where did I put that list of things I should remember? Pregnancy brings forgetfulness -- as usual, the culprit is hormones. You’ll get your brain back someday (hopefully, sooner than later!). Remember to laugh and you’ll muddle through. Muddle through what? What were we talking about? Each time you go to the doctor or clinic, they dip a strip of paper in a cup of your urine to measure your blood sugar level. What’s with that blood sugar test, anyway? It’s to make sure you’re not developing gestational diabetes, a condition that affects around one to two percent of all pregnant women. When blood sugar levels are controlled (through diet and sometimes medication), women can have normal pregnancies and normal, healthy babies. On average, most moms are feeling fetal movement by now. Kick, little one, kick!
With more weight up high and out in front of your body, you may feel a bit off-balance as you walk around. Store away your high heels and wear low-heeled shoes to reduce your risk of taking a tumble.You're likely to feel protective of your tummy, and that's good. Trauma to your abdomen could be harmful to your baby and dangerous to you, so be sure to buckle up when you're driving. Keep the lap portion of the seat belt under your belly and very snug across your hips for maximum protection.
Your uterus is now about halfway between your pubic bone and navel. Your secretions all over your body may increase, due to the increased blood volume. So if you are sweating more, have nasal congestion, or are suffering from increased vaginal discharge this is nothing to worry about and will go away after the birth of the baby.
Overdue Update
I know you must all be wondering where I've been, but I've just been busy and somewhat neglecting my blog. I just came off of a wonderful long weekend, and I'd love to share.
Friday our office closed at noon. I had a little more to do, so I stayed until almost 1, than left to go to my dentist appointment. All looks good, although we skipped the x-rays and he told me that my gums may become more sensitive and bleed during pregnancy. Friday was the Columbus Red-White-and-Boom fireworks display. Things were already getting pretty crowded downtown when I left at 1 p.m., so we weren't really interested in messing with traffic and the crowds to head back downtown. We grilled hotdogs and hamburgers and Martin came over (April was out of town). We attempted to see the fireworks from the deck, but trees and houses were in the way, so we headed back inside to watch them on TV.
Saturday, Eric and I decided to go order the crib. We decided to buy the one from the store here in town. It's a little more expensive than some of the online stuff I found, but I've seen this furniture in person and know it's quality. We ordered the crib which will convert to a toddler bed, the side rails to convert to a full size bed, and a 4 drawer dresser. We debated on going with a three door dresser which we could have used as a changing table buy putting a pad on top, but thought the larger dresser would be more useful in the long run when the kids are using it as "grown-up" furniture. Everything should be in by the end of August. After the crib, we did a little car shopping. We looked at some SUV's and even test drove one, but we're trying to be smart this time, so we haven't made a purchase yet. Also, the cable company came and installed our cable internet.
Sunday after church I did some major cleaning. The house really needed it. After cleaning we also decided to move the main computer to the basement. Ever since we've been running both the X-Box Live and Internet, we've been having computer issues. I think the cable will help with the speed over DSL, but we still were having problems with the Wireless adapter. The cable modem is connected to the cable line in the basement (as we don't have cable upstairs except in the master bedroom), so we had to put the router in the basement. This meant the X-Box was connected by ethernet cable to the router and the computer upstairs was connected with the wireless adapter. We tested both and had them working. Three hours later...I couldn't get on the Internet. The X-Box, however, was working fine. As we've already replaced the wireless adapter once, plus had to reset and reconfigure the router several times, we decided we're tired of it, so we returned the wireless adapter, moved the computer and desk to the basement and have both hard wired to the router.
Monday was a holiday and we treated it as such. Eric and I slept until noon. We then just hung out and decided to have a date night. We went to Wendy's (really exciting) and then played a couple of games of Putt Putt. It was fun.
Tuesday I also took the day off work. Eric is taking the whole week off. We spent the day visiting daycares. We visited four. I think we may have found one. It's the one right behind Eric's office. For me to look back and laugh later, I'll include the cost. It's $185 per week. Not the cheapest one we've found (although we visited the cheapest), but also not the most expensive. We sat down with the owner and were really impressed by her. They've been in business 15 years, several of her employees have Masters degrees, her infant teacher has been there 7 years. They only take 5 infants at a time, so there isn't too much stimulation for the babies. They have developmental activities and make sure the babies spend time (supervised) on both their bellys and backs. When the babies are awake they play music, talk to them, hold them. Bouncy seats are only used during feedings and the child is never in one for more than 30 minutes straight. They put the babies on a regular schedule for feedings and sleeping. I've heard that's really helpful when your at home and on the weekends to know that the babies are used to eating and napping at certain times. I think this is the place. We'll visit again before the baby starts, but I think it's a definate possibility.
Ok, that's what I've been up to. Now read this weeks baby update. I think I may have some interesting news.
Friday our office closed at noon. I had a little more to do, so I stayed until almost 1, than left to go to my dentist appointment. All looks good, although we skipped the x-rays and he told me that my gums may become more sensitive and bleed during pregnancy. Friday was the Columbus Red-White-and-Boom fireworks display. Things were already getting pretty crowded downtown when I left at 1 p.m., so we weren't really interested in messing with traffic and the crowds to head back downtown. We grilled hotdogs and hamburgers and Martin came over (April was out of town). We attempted to see the fireworks from the deck, but trees and houses were in the way, so we headed back inside to watch them on TV.
Saturday, Eric and I decided to go order the crib. We decided to buy the one from the store here in town. It's a little more expensive than some of the online stuff I found, but I've seen this furniture in person and know it's quality. We ordered the crib which will convert to a toddler bed, the side rails to convert to a full size bed, and a 4 drawer dresser. We debated on going with a three door dresser which we could have used as a changing table buy putting a pad on top, but thought the larger dresser would be more useful in the long run when the kids are using it as "grown-up" furniture. Everything should be in by the end of August. After the crib, we did a little car shopping. We looked at some SUV's and even test drove one, but we're trying to be smart this time, so we haven't made a purchase yet. Also, the cable company came and installed our cable internet.
Sunday after church I did some major cleaning. The house really needed it. After cleaning we also decided to move the main computer to the basement. Ever since we've been running both the X-Box Live and Internet, we've been having computer issues. I think the cable will help with the speed over DSL, but we still were having problems with the Wireless adapter. The cable modem is connected to the cable line in the basement (as we don't have cable upstairs except in the master bedroom), so we had to put the router in the basement. This meant the X-Box was connected by ethernet cable to the router and the computer upstairs was connected with the wireless adapter. We tested both and had them working. Three hours later...I couldn't get on the Internet. The X-Box, however, was working fine. As we've already replaced the wireless adapter once, plus had to reset and reconfigure the router several times, we decided we're tired of it, so we returned the wireless adapter, moved the computer and desk to the basement and have both hard wired to the router.
Monday was a holiday and we treated it as such. Eric and I slept until noon. We then just hung out and decided to have a date night. We went to Wendy's (really exciting) and then played a couple of games of Putt Putt. It was fun.
Tuesday I also took the day off work. Eric is taking the whole week off. We spent the day visiting daycares. We visited four. I think we may have found one. It's the one right behind Eric's office. For me to look back and laugh later, I'll include the cost. It's $185 per week. Not the cheapest one we've found (although we visited the cheapest), but also not the most expensive. We sat down with the owner and were really impressed by her. They've been in business 15 years, several of her employees have Masters degrees, her infant teacher has been there 7 years. They only take 5 infants at a time, so there isn't too much stimulation for the babies. They have developmental activities and make sure the babies spend time (supervised) on both their bellys and backs. When the babies are awake they play music, talk to them, hold them. Bouncy seats are only used during feedings and the child is never in one for more than 30 minutes straight. They put the babies on a regular schedule for feedings and sleeping. I've heard that's really helpful when your at home and on the weekends to know that the babies are used to eating and napping at certain times. I think this is the place. We'll visit again before the baby starts, but I think it's a definate possibility.
Ok, that's what I've been up to. Now read this weeks baby update. I think I may have some interesting news.
Thursday, July 01, 2004
Doctor's Appointment - 15weeks, 5 days
Sorry for the delay. I had a lot of work to do when I got back to the office today, so I decided to wait until I came home tonight to update. I had an appointment at 11:30 a.m. today.
Remarkably, they got me in quickly today. The nurse weighed me (I gained 2 pounds since last time), took my blood pressure (100/50), and had me wait on the doctor. Dr. D came in and asked how I was doing. Before she listened to the baby she started with questions. This time I had some.
1. Now that I'm getting some energy back, I've been considering going back to the gym. Since I haven't been in 4 months, what is ok to do? She ok'd cardio including running (although she said it will become uncomfortable), walking on the treadmill, stationary bike, eliptical, stair master, and swimming. She said lifting weights is ok, although she suggested using lighter weights and doing more reps. She even said I could do ab work if it doesn't involve me laying flat on my back.
2. Speaking of flat on my back...I've never slept on my back, but now since it's hard to lay on my stomach, I start on my side, but wake up on my back. How bad is this? She said it's ok, but to try to stay off my back. She suggested propping a pillow behind my hip, so I wouldn't be able to easily roll back over. She also said when my belly gets larger, it's more difficult to roll anywhere.
3. I've been getting lots of headaches again. Any suggestions other than Tylenol? Not really. I try to eat more often, but all she wants to do is Tylenol possibly mixed in with some caffine. If they get really bad, we can discuss further. She said most headache complaints come in weeks 14-18, so it's pretty normal.
4. How long is it safe to travel? I may have a work trip by plane in August and I know I have car trips in October... I can travel (any mode) up to week 35. During car trips stop frequently to walk around and stretch. Pregnancy makes you more prone to blood clots. May also have to stop because of all the extra weight on the bladder.
5. Do you think I'll feel the baby before next appointment? She has no idea. She felt both of hers around 16 weeks, but does this for a living. I may feel it and not realize it. Also, if my placenta is attached to the front wall of my uterus, it would provide extra cushion and might take longer.
6. I've read and talked to lots of people that routinely have an ultrasound at around 20 weeks. Is she planning on doing one then? Yes. We can do one at the next appointment! Yeah!
7. As an alternative, we were considering a 3D place in Cincinnati. Her thoughts? Mixed feelings. Yes, it's cool to see the baby and the technology is awesome. But, as a doctor she's not especially comfortable with people using medical technology for entertainment purposes. "You can't just go to a booth on the street and get a chest x-ray." She's also not sure if she's comfortable with what they do if they see something abnormal. If they let us go like it's all fine, than she'd have to call us a couple days later, "You know that ultrasound you did in Cincinnati? Well, why don't you come in so we can talk..."
After questions, she listened to the heartbeat. It was easy to find and she said it sounded good. She didn't calculate a heartrate for me, but seemed to think it sounded fine.
Then the nurse came in and took blood for the Alpha fetalprotein (AFP) test. It was optional, but it screens for Down's syndrome and Spina Bifida. I guess there can be some false positives that would require further testing, but we decided to go ahead. I'm assuming all will come back fine. If not, we'll discuss this test in more detail.
So that was the appointment. Afterwards, Eric and I decided to cancel our appointment at the 3D place. Eric said he was a little unsure all along. Also, now my doctor is doing an ultrasound that will be covered under insurance and she should be able to tell the sex (assuming baby is cooperative). Now we'll stick to the plan that if the baby cooperates we'll find out the sex, if not...we'll wait until he/she is born. Another reason it was fairly easy for me to give up the 3D deal is the timing. We scheduled it for 7/17. While that was good in that it was only 2 weeks away, it was also the weekend Eric's mom is coming to visit. (We're booked every other weekend after 18 weeks in July, and didn't really want to wait until August). Now I think it definately would have been cool for us to take a grandparent along to the appointment, and I'm sure she would have loved it, but I kept thinking about my Mom. This is her first grandbaby and I know it's hard for her to be so far away anyway. I really think it would have hurt her feelings a little bit if the other grandma got to be there for an ultrasound. Not that my Mom would ever say anything like that or actually get angry, but I don't want to even unintentially hurt her. Now it will be Dr. D, Eric, and I at the appointment and we can share the news with all the grandparents, however, we want.
The next appointment is July 29th at 2:10 p.m. It should be a good one. Just a warning, that post may be late, as I think we'll make personal phone calls to make the announcement, before letting the reading public know.
Remarkably, they got me in quickly today. The nurse weighed me (I gained 2 pounds since last time), took my blood pressure (100/50), and had me wait on the doctor. Dr. D came in and asked how I was doing. Before she listened to the baby she started with questions. This time I had some.
1. Now that I'm getting some energy back, I've been considering going back to the gym. Since I haven't been in 4 months, what is ok to do? She ok'd cardio including running (although she said it will become uncomfortable), walking on the treadmill, stationary bike, eliptical, stair master, and swimming. She said lifting weights is ok, although she suggested using lighter weights and doing more reps. She even said I could do ab work if it doesn't involve me laying flat on my back.
2. Speaking of flat on my back...I've never slept on my back, but now since it's hard to lay on my stomach, I start on my side, but wake up on my back. How bad is this? She said it's ok, but to try to stay off my back. She suggested propping a pillow behind my hip, so I wouldn't be able to easily roll back over. She also said when my belly gets larger, it's more difficult to roll anywhere.
3. I've been getting lots of headaches again. Any suggestions other than Tylenol? Not really. I try to eat more often, but all she wants to do is Tylenol possibly mixed in with some caffine. If they get really bad, we can discuss further. She said most headache complaints come in weeks 14-18, so it's pretty normal.
4. How long is it safe to travel? I may have a work trip by plane in August and I know I have car trips in October... I can travel (any mode) up to week 35. During car trips stop frequently to walk around and stretch. Pregnancy makes you more prone to blood clots. May also have to stop because of all the extra weight on the bladder.
5. Do you think I'll feel the baby before next appointment? She has no idea. She felt both of hers around 16 weeks, but does this for a living. I may feel it and not realize it. Also, if my placenta is attached to the front wall of my uterus, it would provide extra cushion and might take longer.
6. I've read and talked to lots of people that routinely have an ultrasound at around 20 weeks. Is she planning on doing one then? Yes. We can do one at the next appointment! Yeah!
7. As an alternative, we were considering a 3D place in Cincinnati. Her thoughts? Mixed feelings. Yes, it's cool to see the baby and the technology is awesome. But, as a doctor she's not especially comfortable with people using medical technology for entertainment purposes. "You can't just go to a booth on the street and get a chest x-ray." She's also not sure if she's comfortable with what they do if they see something abnormal. If they let us go like it's all fine, than she'd have to call us a couple days later, "You know that ultrasound you did in Cincinnati? Well, why don't you come in so we can talk..."
After questions, she listened to the heartbeat. It was easy to find and she said it sounded good. She didn't calculate a heartrate for me, but seemed to think it sounded fine.
Then the nurse came in and took blood for the Alpha fetalprotein (AFP) test. It was optional, but it screens for Down's syndrome and Spina Bifida. I guess there can be some false positives that would require further testing, but we decided to go ahead. I'm assuming all will come back fine. If not, we'll discuss this test in more detail.
So that was the appointment. Afterwards, Eric and I decided to cancel our appointment at the 3D place. Eric said he was a little unsure all along. Also, now my doctor is doing an ultrasound that will be covered under insurance and she should be able to tell the sex (assuming baby is cooperative). Now we'll stick to the plan that if the baby cooperates we'll find out the sex, if not...we'll wait until he/she is born. Another reason it was fairly easy for me to give up the 3D deal is the timing. We scheduled it for 7/17. While that was good in that it was only 2 weeks away, it was also the weekend Eric's mom is coming to visit. (We're booked every other weekend after 18 weeks in July, and didn't really want to wait until August). Now I think it definately would have been cool for us to take a grandparent along to the appointment, and I'm sure she would have loved it, but I kept thinking about my Mom. This is her first grandbaby and I know it's hard for her to be so far away anyway. I really think it would have hurt her feelings a little bit if the other grandma got to be there for an ultrasound. Not that my Mom would ever say anything like that or actually get angry, but I don't want to even unintentially hurt her. Now it will be Dr. D, Eric, and I at the appointment and we can share the news with all the grandparents, however, we want.
The next appointment is July 29th at 2:10 p.m. It should be a good one. Just a warning, that post may be late, as I think we'll make personal phone calls to make the announcement, before letting the reading public know.
Monday, June 28, 2004
Fifteen Weeks, Two Days - The Sixteenth Week
Internet's back up. We think it may be a router problem. We're getting RoadRunner (cable modem) on Saturday, so hopefully most of these Internet problems will disappear. Anyway, here's the development update.
My Symptoms
Not much new. I've been having more headaches. I notice that I get them when I get hungry, so I try to eat more often, but sometimes I just get them. Tylenol doesn't help much, but that's all I've got. I do miss my Imitrex. I'm still getting bigger. Last week I started gaining weight. It's ok though, because What to Expect says I can gain a pound a week. I don't think I've felt the baby yet. At least nothing I could be be remotely sure was the baby. Hopefully, soon. I'll give more of an update after Thursday's appointment.
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length of your baby by this week is 4.3 to 4.6 inches. Weight is about 2.8 ounces. Fine lanugo hair covers your baby's head. The umbilical cord is attached to the abdomen; this attachment has moved lower on teh body of the fetus. Fingernails are well formed. The legs are longer than the arms. Arms and legs are moving. You can see this movement during an ultrasound examination. You may also be able to feel your baby move at this point in your pregnancy. Many women describe feelings of movement as a "gas bubble" or "fluttering." Often, it's something you have noticed for a few days or more, but you didn't realize what you were feeling. Then it occurs to you: You're feeling the baby moving inside you!
The fetus is about 5 1/2 inches long and weighs 3 ounces. It can swallow! It has preliminary toenails and can move its eyes (though there’s not a lot to see in there).
At 4 1/2 inches long (head to bottom) and 3 1/2 ounces, your baby is about the size of an avocado. In the next three weeks, she'll go through a tremendous growth spurt, though, doubling her weight and adding inches to her length. Her lower limbs are much more developed now. Her head is more erect than it has been, and her eyes have moved toward the front of her head. Your baby's ears are close to their final position, too. Some of her more advanced body systems are working, including her circulatory system and urinary tract. Her heart is now pumping about 25 quarts of blood each day. (By the end of your pregnancy, this will increase to about 1,900 quarts.) The patterning of her scalp has begun, though her hair isn't recognizable yet. Although closed, her eyes are moving (slowly), and she's even started growing toenails.
Your baby's nails are well formed, and some babies are even in need of having their nails trimmed at birth. The ears have also moved from the neck to the head. Your baby is emptying his or her bladder every 40-45 minutes. The limb movements are becoming more coordinated. Your baby is about 3 ounces (85 grams) and 6.3 inches (16 cms). The gender may be detectable by ultrasound.
The Mom
As your baby grows, your uterus and placenta are also growing. Six weeks ago, your uterus weighed about 5 ounces. Today it weighs about 8.75 ounces. The amount of amniotic fluid around the baby is also increasing. There is now about 7.5 uonces of fluid. You can easily feel your uterus about 3 inches below your bellybutton.
"By doze is stuffed ub!" Stuffy nose is common in pregnancy, and so are nosebleeds. That nose of yours is going through a lot right now (as is the rest of you). Progesterone and estrogen are coursing through your body at high rates, softening and swelling mucus membranes including those in the nose and in (hooray!!!) the cervix! Avoid nasal sprays and medications -- sometimes a humidifier in the room where you sleep can help.
Have people been telling you how wonderful you look? The "glow of pregnancy" is real, thanks to increased blood flow to the skin. You may be enjoying yourself more, too, now that your hormones have stabilized and nausea has eased up. You're also probably less anxious about something happening to your baby (the risk of miscarriage drops dramatically after the 14th week) which likely adds to your overall sense of well-being. Soon you'll experience one of the most wonderful moments of pregnancy — feeling your baby move. While some women notice "quickening" as early as 16 weeks, most don't until about 18 weeks or more. If this is your first baby, don't be too anxious — you may not be aware of your baby's movements until 20 weeks or so. The earliest movements may feel like little flutters, gas bubbles, or even like popcorn popping. Over the following weeks they'll start to feel unmistakably like kicks.
You may begin to feel the baby move around this point. This is more likely to happen now if you are a multipara (someone who has had a previous child) or if you are very thin. Generally you will feel the baby move about one month earlier than you did in a previous pregnancy, mainly because you know what you are feeling. It is not uncommon for first time mothers to not recognize fetal movements until 22-24 weeks. These first movements are called "quickening." They can also be used in helping to determine your due date.
My Symptoms
Not much new. I've been having more headaches. I notice that I get them when I get hungry, so I try to eat more often, but sometimes I just get them. Tylenol doesn't help much, but that's all I've got. I do miss my Imitrex. I'm still getting bigger. Last week I started gaining weight. It's ok though, because What to Expect says I can gain a pound a week. I don't think I've felt the baby yet. At least nothing I could be be remotely sure was the baby. Hopefully, soon. I'll give more of an update after Thursday's appointment.
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length of your baby by this week is 4.3 to 4.6 inches. Weight is about 2.8 ounces. Fine lanugo hair covers your baby's head. The umbilical cord is attached to the abdomen; this attachment has moved lower on teh body of the fetus. Fingernails are well formed. The legs are longer than the arms. Arms and legs are moving. You can see this movement during an ultrasound examination. You may also be able to feel your baby move at this point in your pregnancy. Many women describe feelings of movement as a "gas bubble" or "fluttering." Often, it's something you have noticed for a few days or more, but you didn't realize what you were feeling. Then it occurs to you: You're feeling the baby moving inside you!
The fetus is about 5 1/2 inches long and weighs 3 ounces. It can swallow! It has preliminary toenails and can move its eyes (though there’s not a lot to see in there).
At 4 1/2 inches long (head to bottom) and 3 1/2 ounces, your baby is about the size of an avocado. In the next three weeks, she'll go through a tremendous growth spurt, though, doubling her weight and adding inches to her length. Her lower limbs are much more developed now. Her head is more erect than it has been, and her eyes have moved toward the front of her head. Your baby's ears are close to their final position, too. Some of her more advanced body systems are working, including her circulatory system and urinary tract. Her heart is now pumping about 25 quarts of blood each day. (By the end of your pregnancy, this will increase to about 1,900 quarts.) The patterning of her scalp has begun, though her hair isn't recognizable yet. Although closed, her eyes are moving (slowly), and she's even started growing toenails.
Your baby's nails are well formed, and some babies are even in need of having their nails trimmed at birth. The ears have also moved from the neck to the head. Your baby is emptying his or her bladder every 40-45 minutes. The limb movements are becoming more coordinated. Your baby is about 3 ounces (85 grams) and 6.3 inches (16 cms). The gender may be detectable by ultrasound.
The Mom
As your baby grows, your uterus and placenta are also growing. Six weeks ago, your uterus weighed about 5 ounces. Today it weighs about 8.75 ounces. The amount of amniotic fluid around the baby is also increasing. There is now about 7.5 uonces of fluid. You can easily feel your uterus about 3 inches below your bellybutton.
"By doze is stuffed ub!" Stuffy nose is common in pregnancy, and so are nosebleeds. That nose of yours is going through a lot right now (as is the rest of you). Progesterone and estrogen are coursing through your body at high rates, softening and swelling mucus membranes including those in the nose and in (hooray!!!) the cervix! Avoid nasal sprays and medications -- sometimes a humidifier in the room where you sleep can help.
Have people been telling you how wonderful you look? The "glow of pregnancy" is real, thanks to increased blood flow to the skin. You may be enjoying yourself more, too, now that your hormones have stabilized and nausea has eased up. You're also probably less anxious about something happening to your baby (the risk of miscarriage drops dramatically after the 14th week) which likely adds to your overall sense of well-being. Soon you'll experience one of the most wonderful moments of pregnancy — feeling your baby move. While some women notice "quickening" as early as 16 weeks, most don't until about 18 weeks or more. If this is your first baby, don't be too anxious — you may not be aware of your baby's movements until 20 weeks or so. The earliest movements may feel like little flutters, gas bubbles, or even like popcorn popping. Over the following weeks they'll start to feel unmistakably like kicks.
You may begin to feel the baby move around this point. This is more likely to happen now if you are a multipara (someone who has had a previous child) or if you are very thin. Generally you will feel the baby move about one month earlier than you did in a previous pregnancy, mainly because you know what you are feeling. It is not uncommon for first time mothers to not recognize fetal movements until 22-24 weeks. These first movements are called "quickening." They can also be used in helping to determine your due date.
Weekend Update
I’m taking a moment to do my weekend update. It wasn’t a bad weekend, although, I think traveling while pregnant is not very fun.
Friday
I got a lot done at work. Yeah! Then I decided to take a short nap when I got home. Eric came in and decided to lay down with me at about 6:00 p.m. I got up at about 7:00 p.m. and Eric just kept sleeping. I took a nice bath and then the neighbors called. They were playing Putt Putt, so I decided to go join them. I tried to wake Eric up, but he was out. I played a game of miniature golf and went to get ice cream with them. I got home around 10:00 p.m. and had a brief conversation with my Father-In-Law. Eric was still out, so I went next door to hang out a little more and watch some TV. I came home and went to bed around midnight. Eric was still asleep.
Saturday
I woke Eric up at 8:00 a.m. to go into the office (14 hours of sleep!) I slept a little later, and got up around 9:30 a.m. I puttered around, not expecting Eric until around noon. He got home around 10:30 a.m. and I had to get our stuff together. We ended up leaving around 11:00 a.m., but had to stop at Wal-Mart to pick up Logan’s birthday gift and then get some lunch. By 12:00 we were on the road. We got into Gary & Christie’s around 4:00 p.m. (3 Indiana time). We had a really nice afternoon. The weather was great and we sat outside on their patio enjoying the company and the new water feature in the backyard. Eric’s uncle Leonard and aunt Vicki stopped by and Gary grilled us some ribs that were so yummy. When it started to get dark, Gary built a fire and we turned on the TV outside and watched a movie. It was like a drive in. I also used the Doppler and let them here a live show of the Little One. One other really cool thing is that they have offered to help us pay for our crib. It’s so awesome. I’d really been debating on getting what I really wanted or something cheaper online. Now that it won’t be quite so much for us out of pocket, I think we’ll really get what we want. It’s an investment because this crib will eventually become a full size bed and be used until the Little One goes to college.
Sunday
We got up and had some homemade biscuits and gravy for breakfast. After breakfast, Eric and I decided to head on down to Bloomington to Kyle & Leslie’s. The party for Logan really got under way at about 1:00 p.m. Indiana time. We ate and stayed for presents and cake, and then left at around 4:00 p.m. (Ohio time). We got home around 7:30 p.m. and I felt like I’d been hit with a truck. I was so achy and sore. I also got a headache Sunday morning that didn’t go away until about 10:00 a.m. today. I took a bath when I got home and just layed on the couch for the rest of the evening.
On an unrelated note. My Internet is down at home. I’m not sure why. I called today to order Road Runner, so we should have cable internet as soon as Saturday. It’s painful that I won’t be able to update from home, but we’ll survive. I’ll work on my weekly update for tomorrow hopefully. Also, I’ve been doing some research on 3D ultrasound places. I found one in Cincinnati that looks cool (and affordable), now I’m not sure if I want my doctor to agree to do it or not. If Dr. D says no on Thursday, I’ll make an appointment at this place. I’m going to aim for the weekend of July 17th if we schedule our own.
Friday
I got a lot done at work. Yeah! Then I decided to take a short nap when I got home. Eric came in and decided to lay down with me at about 6:00 p.m. I got up at about 7:00 p.m. and Eric just kept sleeping. I took a nice bath and then the neighbors called. They were playing Putt Putt, so I decided to go join them. I tried to wake Eric up, but he was out. I played a game of miniature golf and went to get ice cream with them. I got home around 10:00 p.m. and had a brief conversation with my Father-In-Law. Eric was still out, so I went next door to hang out a little more and watch some TV. I came home and went to bed around midnight. Eric was still asleep.
Saturday
I woke Eric up at 8:00 a.m. to go into the office (14 hours of sleep!) I slept a little later, and got up around 9:30 a.m. I puttered around, not expecting Eric until around noon. He got home around 10:30 a.m. and I had to get our stuff together. We ended up leaving around 11:00 a.m., but had to stop at Wal-Mart to pick up Logan’s birthday gift and then get some lunch. By 12:00 we were on the road. We got into Gary & Christie’s around 4:00 p.m. (3 Indiana time). We had a really nice afternoon. The weather was great and we sat outside on their patio enjoying the company and the new water feature in the backyard. Eric’s uncle Leonard and aunt Vicki stopped by and Gary grilled us some ribs that were so yummy. When it started to get dark, Gary built a fire and we turned on the TV outside and watched a movie. It was like a drive in. I also used the Doppler and let them here a live show of the Little One. One other really cool thing is that they have offered to help us pay for our crib. It’s so awesome. I’d really been debating on getting what I really wanted or something cheaper online. Now that it won’t be quite so much for us out of pocket, I think we’ll really get what we want. It’s an investment because this crib will eventually become a full size bed and be used until the Little One goes to college.
Sunday
We got up and had some homemade biscuits and gravy for breakfast. After breakfast, Eric and I decided to head on down to Bloomington to Kyle & Leslie’s. The party for Logan really got under way at about 1:00 p.m. Indiana time. We ate and stayed for presents and cake, and then left at around 4:00 p.m. (Ohio time). We got home around 7:30 p.m. and I felt like I’d been hit with a truck. I was so achy and sore. I also got a headache Sunday morning that didn’t go away until about 10:00 a.m. today. I took a bath when I got home and just layed on the couch for the rest of the evening.
On an unrelated note. My Internet is down at home. I’m not sure why. I called today to order Road Runner, so we should have cable internet as soon as Saturday. It’s painful that I won’t be able to update from home, but we’ll survive. I’ll work on my weekly update for tomorrow hopefully. Also, I’ve been doing some research on 3D ultrasound places. I found one in Cincinnati that looks cool (and affordable), now I’m not sure if I want my doctor to agree to do it or not. If Dr. D says no on Thursday, I’ll make an appointment at this place. I’m going to aim for the weekend of July 17th if we schedule our own.
Wednesday, June 23, 2004
One More
Last post for the day, I promise.
I uploaded the a new heartbeat file. This one has the movement sounds. It's about 14 seconds in. If you listen to the whole thing, you'll hear it. Remember, I wasn't moving the probe.
Here you go.
I uploaded the a new heartbeat file. This one has the movement sounds. It's about 14 seconds in. If you listen to the whole thing, you'll hear it. Remember, I wasn't moving the probe.
Here you go.
Questions for Doctor
I have a doctor appointment a week from tomorrow. My doctor doesn't seem to volunteer information just because, so I want to come up with some questions for her. I'll write what I have and PLEASE feel free to comment with more I should consider.
First a run down of what I expect to happen. Arrive and wait in the waiting room 20 minutes past my appointment time. Pee in a cup. Get weighed and blood pressure taken. Head into the exam room to wait another 15 minutes. When the doctor comes in, I think she'll use her Doppler to listen for the heartbeat. Then questions.
1. What is the heartrate? I know I could count this out myself, but I seem to have trouble counting over 30 in under 15 seconds.
2. Exercise. I've been getting somewhat of a desire to go back to the gym. I know you can continue exercising when pregnant, but I need to know what is acceptable to begin again after stopping for 4 months. More specifically, any restrictions on weight lifting.
3. What does the doctor think my chances are of feeling the baby before my next appointment? (I know this isn't that important, but I'm curious)
4. Next Ultrasound. Will she perform an ultrasound at 20 weeks? If not, any good reasons? Can I change her mind? What if I agree to pay if insurance doesn't? If still no, does she know where I can go to get one done? I plan to try to point out the other reasons than determining sex to do a 20 week ultrasound, including placement of the placenta, measuring for dates, narrowing down due date.
That's all I've got. Any other suggestions?
First a run down of what I expect to happen. Arrive and wait in the waiting room 20 minutes past my appointment time. Pee in a cup. Get weighed and blood pressure taken. Head into the exam room to wait another 15 minutes. When the doctor comes in, I think she'll use her Doppler to listen for the heartbeat. Then questions.
1. What is the heartrate? I know I could count this out myself, but I seem to have trouble counting over 30 in under 15 seconds.
2. Exercise. I've been getting somewhat of a desire to go back to the gym. I know you can continue exercising when pregnant, but I need to know what is acceptable to begin again after stopping for 4 months. More specifically, any restrictions on weight lifting.
3. What does the doctor think my chances are of feeling the baby before my next appointment? (I know this isn't that important, but I'm curious)
4. Next Ultrasound. Will she perform an ultrasound at 20 weeks? If not, any good reasons? Can I change her mind? What if I agree to pay if insurance doesn't? If still no, does she know where I can go to get one done? I plan to try to point out the other reasons than determining sex to do a 20 week ultrasound, including placement of the placenta, measuring for dates, narrowing down due date.
That's all I've got. Any other suggestions?
Loving Pregnancy
I feel like I’ve been neglecting my blog lately. I know I’ve been doing my weekly updates, but I don’t really feel I’ve been saying much about me. To make excuses, I’ve been super busy at work with no sign of things letting up. My brain works best during the 9 to 5 hours, so I don’t have a whole lot left to give when I get home. Today, I’m eating lunch at my desk, and while I’m eating, I’m typing. I don’t want my pregnancy to slip away without capturing my feelings at every stage.
I think I’m in the honeymoon stage. I currently love being pregnant. Most of the negative side effects are gone (queasiness, extreme fatigue, constipation,) and I’m still far enough from the end to not be worried yet, about delivery or what to do when the baby comes home. Although, I did feel a twinge of heartburn two days ago. I still get tired, but definitely have more energy. Monday night I stayed up until 12:30 a.m. to finish reading a book (titled “Good in Bed” and recommended by my girlfriends). A side note on that, no one warned me that there would be a subject involved that is very close to my heart and then when I broke into tears with several chapters to go and already 45 minutes past my bed time, that I would have to stay up until I finished it!
I also am very happy with what’s going on with my body. I am beginning to feel incredibly sexy. I know that sounds bizarre as I’m getting bigger, but it’s so different than “gaining weight”. My chest is bigger and my belly is growing, but it is just taking on this wonderful round, full shape. It’s not exactly hard, but the shape doesn’t remind me of what I look like when I put on weight. I also think if it weren’t for the belly, it’s possible I would be losing weight right now. My legs are getting thinner and therefore I feel like my lower body looks awesome. I also am completely comfortable in all of my clothes with no waistbands digging into my skin or love handles overflowing, so I don’t feel “fat”. I just look down and see the roundness of my stomach, but I don’t forget why it’s there. I’m sure in months to come, I’ll start to feel differently as the inevitable weight gain occurs and possibly redistributes to not-so-welcome places, but for now, I’m happy.
I’m also thinking a lot about the baby. It’s so hard for me to believe how big it must be inside me. It’s probably in the 4 inch category right now. Get out your ruler and look at how long that is…go ahead, I’ll wait. I guess it’s hard for me to picture, when I still can’t feel it. I think about that a lot too. At night, before I go to bed, I listen to the baby. It’s very active at night, I can here the bubble noises through the Doppler. Maybe I’ll download them for you. When I hear it move, I try very hard to feel it, but still nothing. I’ve done some research and figure at the very early end, I could feel it by 18 weeks. I hope so. I can’t wait to be reminded that’s it’s there, just waiting and growing. I’m also looking forward to possibly finding out the sex next month. Although, I also think I’d be ok not knowing. I just feel bad writing “it.” Honestly, I usually refer to it as “he,” I don’t want to give the baby a complex if it turns out to be a girl though, so I feel I should find out what it is.
Ok, work calls. If I get a chance, I’d like to post again on questions for the doctor next week. Feel free to leave any in the comment area if you can think of anything. I’ll try to write again soon.
I think I’m in the honeymoon stage. I currently love being pregnant. Most of the negative side effects are gone (queasiness, extreme fatigue, constipation,) and I’m still far enough from the end to not be worried yet, about delivery or what to do when the baby comes home. Although, I did feel a twinge of heartburn two days ago. I still get tired, but definitely have more energy. Monday night I stayed up until 12:30 a.m. to finish reading a book (titled “Good in Bed” and recommended by my girlfriends). A side note on that, no one warned me that there would be a subject involved that is very close to my heart and then when I broke into tears with several chapters to go and already 45 minutes past my bed time, that I would have to stay up until I finished it!
I also am very happy with what’s going on with my body. I am beginning to feel incredibly sexy. I know that sounds bizarre as I’m getting bigger, but it’s so different than “gaining weight”. My chest is bigger and my belly is growing, but it is just taking on this wonderful round, full shape. It’s not exactly hard, but the shape doesn’t remind me of what I look like when I put on weight. I also think if it weren’t for the belly, it’s possible I would be losing weight right now. My legs are getting thinner and therefore I feel like my lower body looks awesome. I also am completely comfortable in all of my clothes with no waistbands digging into my skin or love handles overflowing, so I don’t feel “fat”. I just look down and see the roundness of my stomach, but I don’t forget why it’s there. I’m sure in months to come, I’ll start to feel differently as the inevitable weight gain occurs and possibly redistributes to not-so-welcome places, but for now, I’m happy.
I’m also thinking a lot about the baby. It’s so hard for me to believe how big it must be inside me. It’s probably in the 4 inch category right now. Get out your ruler and look at how long that is…go ahead, I’ll wait. I guess it’s hard for me to picture, when I still can’t feel it. I think about that a lot too. At night, before I go to bed, I listen to the baby. It’s very active at night, I can here the bubble noises through the Doppler. Maybe I’ll download them for you. When I hear it move, I try very hard to feel it, but still nothing. I’ve done some research and figure at the very early end, I could feel it by 18 weeks. I hope so. I can’t wait to be reminded that’s it’s there, just waiting and growing. I’m also looking forward to possibly finding out the sex next month. Although, I also think I’d be ok not knowing. I just feel bad writing “it.” Honestly, I usually refer to it as “he,” I don’t want to give the baby a complex if it turns out to be a girl though, so I feel I should find out what it is.
Ok, work calls. If I get a chance, I’d like to post again on questions for the doctor next week. Feel free to leave any in the comment area if you can think of anything. I’ll try to write again soon.
Sunday, June 20, 2004
Measurements
It seemed to me like I'd been growing lately and I hadn't measured in about 3 weeks, so this morning I took measurements at 14 weeks, 1 day. This time I'm going to compare to the beginning and last measurement at 11 weeks, 3 days.
Before = (B) Last = (L) Current =(C)
Weight - 150.5 (B), 150.5 (L), 151.0 (C) = +.5 pound (scale battery is dead, so weight is from a couple of days ago)
Bicep - 11 3/4 (B), 11 3/4 (L), 11 3/4 (C) = No change
Chest - 35 1/2 (B), 37 1/4 (L), 38 1/4 (C) = +2 3/4 inches
Waist (at smallest point) - 30 (B), 31 (L), 31 1/2 (C) = +1 1/2 inches
Waist (at belly button) - 32 1/2 (B), 34 1/2 (L), 36 (C) = +3 1/2 inches
Hips - 38 (B), 38 (L), 38 1/2 (C) = + 1/2
Thigh - 23 (B), 22 1/2 (L), 22 1/4 (C) = - 3/4 inch
Calf - 14 (B), 14 (L), 14 (C) = No change
Now the numbers are starting to get bigger. Thankfully, still mostly in places I don't mind. I'm curious to see what my doctor will say about my minimal weight gain next week. I'm eating, so I'm assuming everything is going fine.
Before = (B) Last = (L) Current =(C)
Weight - 150.5 (B), 150.5 (L), 151.0 (C) = +.5 pound (scale battery is dead, so weight is from a couple of days ago)
Bicep - 11 3/4 (B), 11 3/4 (L), 11 3/4 (C) = No change
Chest - 35 1/2 (B), 37 1/4 (L), 38 1/4 (C) = +2 3/4 inches
Waist (at smallest point) - 30 (B), 31 (L), 31 1/2 (C) = +1 1/2 inches
Waist (at belly button) - 32 1/2 (B), 34 1/2 (L), 36 (C) = +3 1/2 inches
Hips - 38 (B), 38 (L), 38 1/2 (C) = + 1/2
Thigh - 23 (B), 22 1/2 (L), 22 1/4 (C) = - 3/4 inch
Calf - 14 (B), 14 (L), 14 (C) = No change
Now the numbers are starting to get bigger. Thankfully, still mostly in places I don't mind. I'm curious to see what my doctor will say about my minimal weight gain next week. I'm eating, so I'm assuming everything is going fine.
Fourteen Weeks, One Day - The Fifteenth Week
My Symptoms
Not much has changed this week, except maybe the size of my abdomen. I took some measurements, I'll post them in a separate post. I still feel pretty good. I don't know if I've really got my energy back, but I don't seem quite as useless. I'm also really hungry. I've decided my craving is for french fries. Especially if they have cheese on them. I'm crazy about Steak and Shake lately too. I'm still looking forward to movement, but satisfy myself by listening. It's so easy to find the heartbeat now. I'm curious to see what the doctor will say about it next week.
The Baby
Crown-to-rump length by this week of pregnancy is 4.1 to 4.5 inches. The fetus weighs about 1.75 ounces. It's close to the size of a softball. Your baby's rapid growth continues. Its skin is thin. At this point in its development, you can see blood vessels through the skin. Fine hair called lanugo hair covers the baby's body. By this time, your baby may be sucking its thumb. Eyes continue to move to the front of the face but are still widely separated. Ears continue to develop externally.
Lanugo, a very fine hair, covers the fetus. It will keep growing until around the 26th gestational week of pregnancy (that’s week 28 of your pregnancy to you, sister!).
At around 4 inches long, crown to rump, your baby now weighs about 2 1/2 ounces. He's busy inhaling and exhaling amniotic fluid, which will help develop the air sacs in his lungs. His legs are growing longer than his arms now, and he can move all his joints and limbs. That means his hands are more functional, too. Sweat glands are appearing, and although his eyelids are fused shut, he can sense light. If you shine a flashlight at your tummy, he's likely to move away from the beam. There's not much for your baby to taste at this point, but he now has taste buds. And if you have an ultrasound, you may be able to find out whether your baby's a boy or girl! (Don't be disappointed if it remains a mystery, though. Nailing down the gender depends somewhat on how clear the picture is and the position of your baby during the ultrasound.
Your baby may have developed the habit of sucking his or her thumb! The skin is very thin and you can see the blood vessels clearly underneath. Your baby is about 70 grams. The scalp hair pattern is developing. And the heart is pumping about 25 quarts of blood a day. This will increase to about 300 at term.
The Mom
You can easily tell you're pregnant by the changes in your lower abdomen, which alter the way your clothes fit. You may be able to feel your uterus about 3 or 4 inches below your bellybutton. Your pregnancy may not be obvious to other people when you wear regular street clothes. But it may become obvious if you start wearing maternity clothes or put on a swimming suit. It's still a little early to feel movement, although you shoudl feel your baby move in the next few weeks!
The belt is getting tighter, your partner’s big clothes may fit in the waist, but what about those hips and that belly? Some women make it most of the way through with stretch pants and big shirts, but others need a more "professional" maternity wardrobe. Don’t worry, the days are gone when pregnancy meant fashion went out the window. Today’s styles are almost as cute as your baby is going to be. Your uterus is halfway between pubic bone and belly button. You may feel Braxton Hicks contractions. These painless and random contractions can be thought of as your body warming up for the big event of birth. If you have more than five per hour, if they come at a steady pace, or if they’re accompanied by intense cramps or backaches, call the doctor. Let’s talk about constipation. Or not. But it’s a fact of life for many pregnant women. Pump those fluids (at least 8 glasses of water a day) and keep doing mild exercise -- walking and swimming are terrific ways to get or stay in shape! If constipation becomes chronic, ask your healthcare provider to recommend an all-natural laxative.
You've probably gained about 5 pounds by now. If it's a little more or less, don't worry too much. Every woman gains weight at a different rate. While you're well into the swing of being pregnant, you may still be surprised by an unexpected symptom now and then. If your nose is stuffed up, for example, you can probably chalk it up to your pregnancy. That's because increased estrogen can cause swelling in the mucous membranes and possibly the production of more mucus. Your blood volume is increasing, too, which causes your blood vessels to expand, including those in your nose. (You may get occasional nosebleeds as a result.) And because pregnancy alters your immune system and makes you more susceptible to certain infections, it might just be that you have a cold or allergies. In any case, make sure you stay away from irritants, like cigarette smoke, aerosols, and alcohol. Don't worry if you and your partner are feeling a little stressed out these days. Many pregnant couples worry about the baby's health and how they'll cope as new parents. But with minimal physical discomfort and renewed energy, this is also a wonderful trimester for most women, so try to enjoy it!
Your heart is increasing its output to supply the baby with oxygen. Your enlarged heart is pumping about 20% more blood than prepregnancy. This volume will actually increase throughout your pregnancy for an ending increased heart output of 30-50%. If your clothes are getting tight, do not try to cram yourself into clothes. Either invest in some maternity clothes, borrow them, wear your partner's clothing or unzip your pants! The maternal blood screening for neural tube defects, often called the Alpha-fetoprotein Test (AFP) may be offered at this point. It is a screening that is most accurate during the 15 - 17th weeks of gestation, although this screening has a high false positive rate.
Not much has changed this week, except maybe the size of my abdomen. I took some measurements, I'll post them in a separate post. I still feel pretty good. I don't know if I've really got my energy back, but I don't seem quite as useless. I'm also really hungry. I've decided my craving is for french fries. Especially if they have cheese on them. I'm crazy about Steak and Shake lately too. I'm still looking forward to movement, but satisfy myself by listening. It's so easy to find the heartbeat now. I'm curious to see what the doctor will say about it next week.
The Baby
Crown-to-rump length by this week of pregnancy is 4.1 to 4.5 inches. The fetus weighs about 1.75 ounces. It's close to the size of a softball. Your baby's rapid growth continues. Its skin is thin. At this point in its development, you can see blood vessels through the skin. Fine hair called lanugo hair covers the baby's body. By this time, your baby may be sucking its thumb. Eyes continue to move to the front of the face but are still widely separated. Ears continue to develop externally.
Lanugo, a very fine hair, covers the fetus. It will keep growing until around the 26th gestational week of pregnancy (that’s week 28 of your pregnancy to you, sister!).
At around 4 inches long, crown to rump, your baby now weighs about 2 1/2 ounces. He's busy inhaling and exhaling amniotic fluid, which will help develop the air sacs in his lungs. His legs are growing longer than his arms now, and he can move all his joints and limbs. That means his hands are more functional, too. Sweat glands are appearing, and although his eyelids are fused shut, he can sense light. If you shine a flashlight at your tummy, he's likely to move away from the beam. There's not much for your baby to taste at this point, but he now has taste buds. And if you have an ultrasound, you may be able to find out whether your baby's a boy or girl! (Don't be disappointed if it remains a mystery, though. Nailing down the gender depends somewhat on how clear the picture is and the position of your baby during the ultrasound.
Your baby may have developed the habit of sucking his or her thumb! The skin is very thin and you can see the blood vessels clearly underneath. Your baby is about 70 grams. The scalp hair pattern is developing. And the heart is pumping about 25 quarts of blood a day. This will increase to about 300 at term.
The Mom
You can easily tell you're pregnant by the changes in your lower abdomen, which alter the way your clothes fit. You may be able to feel your uterus about 3 or 4 inches below your bellybutton. Your pregnancy may not be obvious to other people when you wear regular street clothes. But it may become obvious if you start wearing maternity clothes or put on a swimming suit. It's still a little early to feel movement, although you shoudl feel your baby move in the next few weeks!
The belt is getting tighter, your partner’s big clothes may fit in the waist, but what about those hips and that belly? Some women make it most of the way through with stretch pants and big shirts, but others need a more "professional" maternity wardrobe. Don’t worry, the days are gone when pregnancy meant fashion went out the window. Today’s styles are almost as cute as your baby is going to be. Your uterus is halfway between pubic bone and belly button. You may feel Braxton Hicks contractions. These painless and random contractions can be thought of as your body warming up for the big event of birth. If you have more than five per hour, if they come at a steady pace, or if they’re accompanied by intense cramps or backaches, call the doctor. Let’s talk about constipation. Or not. But it’s a fact of life for many pregnant women. Pump those fluids (at least 8 glasses of water a day) and keep doing mild exercise -- walking and swimming are terrific ways to get or stay in shape! If constipation becomes chronic, ask your healthcare provider to recommend an all-natural laxative.
You've probably gained about 5 pounds by now. If it's a little more or less, don't worry too much. Every woman gains weight at a different rate. While you're well into the swing of being pregnant, you may still be surprised by an unexpected symptom now and then. If your nose is stuffed up, for example, you can probably chalk it up to your pregnancy. That's because increased estrogen can cause swelling in the mucous membranes and possibly the production of more mucus. Your blood volume is increasing, too, which causes your blood vessels to expand, including those in your nose. (You may get occasional nosebleeds as a result.) And because pregnancy alters your immune system and makes you more susceptible to certain infections, it might just be that you have a cold or allergies. In any case, make sure you stay away from irritants, like cigarette smoke, aerosols, and alcohol. Don't worry if you and your partner are feeling a little stressed out these days. Many pregnant couples worry about the baby's health and how they'll cope as new parents. But with minimal physical discomfort and renewed energy, this is also a wonderful trimester for most women, so try to enjoy it!
Your heart is increasing its output to supply the baby with oxygen. Your enlarged heart is pumping about 20% more blood than prepregnancy. This volume will actually increase throughout your pregnancy for an ending increased heart output of 30-50%. If your clothes are getting tight, do not try to cram yourself into clothes. Either invest in some maternity clothes, borrow them, wear your partner's clothing or unzip your pants! The maternal blood screening for neural tube defects, often called the Alpha-fetoprotein Test (AFP) may be offered at this point. It is a screening that is most accurate during the 15 - 17th weeks of gestation, although this screening has a high false positive rate.
Monday, June 14, 2004
More Pictures
In an e-mail to my girls today, I mentioned that the outfit I wore to work, hid nothing about my new shape. I am posting a picture below. The shirt is form fitting, so shows exactly where my belly is without hiding it in lots of extra fabric. It's so bizarre, that I now chose to wear things that make me look "fat", where I used to complete avoid any outfit that would accentuate my waistline. I can still cling to the fact that I've gained very little weight 1/2 pound to be exact. At least by the time I have gained 10 or 15 pounds, my belly should be very round and pregnant like.
I have also included a link to the close up belly shot. I'll add this one to the sidebar.
Ok, it's starting to seem like I'm obsessed with my growth. I guess this is it until the kicking starts.
I have also included a link to the close up belly shot. I'll add this one to the sidebar.
Ok, it's starting to seem like I'm obsessed with my growth. I guess this is it until the kicking starts.
Sunday, June 13, 2004
13 Weeks, 1 Day - The Fourteenth Week
Second Trimester! Can you believe it? Sometimes I still can't. Anyway, it's official. I am now in my second trimester, fourth month, and fourteenth week. It's so good. Here's the scoop.
My Symptoms
I feel great. Like I mentioned earlier this week, I'm still tired, but all the other bad stuff I complained about a month ago. I hardly remember. Funny how that works. Looking back, it wasn't so bad and didn't really last that long. I'm guessing this is how I'll feel about the pain of childbirth a couple of weeks after I bring my baby home?
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length is 3.2 to 4.1 inches. Your baby is about the size of your fist and weighs almost 1 ounce. This week the baby's ears have moved from the neck to the sides of the head. Eyes have been moving gradually to the front of the face from the side of the head. The neck continues to get longer, and the chin no longer rests on the chest. Sexual development continues. It is becoming easier to determine male from female by looking at external genitalia, which are more developed.
Lub-dub, lub-dub..." At your doctor’s visit, ask to hear the baby’s heartbeat. At this point, using a Doppler you'll be able to hear the tiny beating.
Head to bottom, your baby's 3 1/2 inches long — about the length of a lemon — and weighs about 1 1/2 ounces. Her body's growing faster than her head, which now sits upon a more well-defined neck. By the end of this week, her arms will have lengthened and will be in proportion to the rest of her body. (Her legs still have some growing to do, though.) She's starting to develop an ultra-fine, downy covering of hair all over her body (called lanugo). Her liver starts secreting bile this week, a sign that it's already functioning properly, and her spleen starts contributing to the production of red blood cells. She's also producing and discharging urine into the amniotic fluid, a normal process that she'll keep up until birth. You still can't feel your baby's movements, but her hands and feet (which are now half an inch long) are more flexible and active. Thanks to brain impulses, her little facial muscles are getting a workout as she squints, frowns, and grimaces. She can grasp now, too, and she may be able to suck her thumb.
The baby is now about 12.5 cms or 4.92 inches. Your baby is now producing urine and actually urinating into the amniotic fluid. It also can practice "breathing" the amniotic fluid in and out of its lungs. Amniotic fluid is an amazing substance. It completely regenerates itself every three hours. We do know that it is partially composed of urine from the baby, but where amniotic fluid in general is made we are not sure. Modern medicine still has some surprises left.
The Mom
Maternity clothes may be a "must" by now. Some women try to get by for a while by not buttoning or zipping thier pants all the way or by using rubber bands or safety pins to increase their waistbands. It usually only works for a short time. YOU are going to get even bigger. You'll enjoy your pregnancy more and feel more comfortable with cloting that fits comfortably and provides you room to grow.
It may feel like butterflies or it may feel like gas. Some mothers may feel fetal movement (quickening), though others may not be able to identify movement until around week 20. Soon, though, you’ll be playing footsie with a fetus who insists on poking you in the ribs and dancing the rumba -- just when you settle in for a good night’s rest. And speaking of sleep -- not all pregnant women can! How can you get comfortable? Try warm milk, soothing massage and, as you grow, lots of pillows -- under your leg, under your belly, next to your back... did I also tell you you’ll need a bigger bed? (Hey, once the baby is born, you may never sleep again!)
As early discomforts (nausea, fatigue, breast tenderness) begin to fade, you may start to regain some energy and feel more comfortable with how your body's changing. (Although the top of your uterus is only a bit above your pelvic bone, that growth may be enough to push your tummy out a bit. Starting to show is an exciting pregnancy milestone and it will likely give you and your partner the visible evidence of a baby that you've been waiting for. Take some time to plan, daydream, and enjoy this amazing time. It's normal to worry a bit now and then, but you can also breathe a little sigh of relief knowing that with the start of this trimester your risk of miscarriage has dropped significantly. Now try to focus on taking care of yourself and your baby and having faith that you're well equipped for what's ahead.
The hormonal changes in your body are becoming apparent. Many are in the form of skin changes. You may have developed a dark line down the middle of your abdomen to your pubic bone called a linea negra. The areola (dark nipple portion of your breasts) may have darkened and gotten larger as well. Your uterus is now the size of a grapefruit.
My Symptoms
I feel great. Like I mentioned earlier this week, I'm still tired, but all the other bad stuff I complained about a month ago. I hardly remember. Funny how that works. Looking back, it wasn't so bad and didn't really last that long. I'm guessing this is how I'll feel about the pain of childbirth a couple of weeks after I bring my baby home?
The Baby
The crown-to-rump length is 3.2 to 4.1 inches. Your baby is about the size of your fist and weighs almost 1 ounce. This week the baby's ears have moved from the neck to the sides of the head. Eyes have been moving gradually to the front of the face from the side of the head. The neck continues to get longer, and the chin no longer rests on the chest. Sexual development continues. It is becoming easier to determine male from female by looking at external genitalia, which are more developed.
Lub-dub, lub-dub..." At your doctor’s visit, ask to hear the baby’s heartbeat. At this point, using a Doppler you'll be able to hear the tiny beating.
Head to bottom, your baby's 3 1/2 inches long — about the length of a lemon — and weighs about 1 1/2 ounces. Her body's growing faster than her head, which now sits upon a more well-defined neck. By the end of this week, her arms will have lengthened and will be in proportion to the rest of her body. (Her legs still have some growing to do, though.) She's starting to develop an ultra-fine, downy covering of hair all over her body (called lanugo). Her liver starts secreting bile this week, a sign that it's already functioning properly, and her spleen starts contributing to the production of red blood cells. She's also producing and discharging urine into the amniotic fluid, a normal process that she'll keep up until birth. You still can't feel your baby's movements, but her hands and feet (which are now half an inch long) are more flexible and active. Thanks to brain impulses, her little facial muscles are getting a workout as she squints, frowns, and grimaces. She can grasp now, too, and she may be able to suck her thumb.
The baby is now about 12.5 cms or 4.92 inches. Your baby is now producing urine and actually urinating into the amniotic fluid. It also can practice "breathing" the amniotic fluid in and out of its lungs. Amniotic fluid is an amazing substance. It completely regenerates itself every three hours. We do know that it is partially composed of urine from the baby, but where amniotic fluid in general is made we are not sure. Modern medicine still has some surprises left.
The Mom
Maternity clothes may be a "must" by now. Some women try to get by for a while by not buttoning or zipping thier pants all the way or by using rubber bands or safety pins to increase their waistbands. It usually only works for a short time. YOU are going to get even bigger. You'll enjoy your pregnancy more and feel more comfortable with cloting that fits comfortably and provides you room to grow.
It may feel like butterflies or it may feel like gas. Some mothers may feel fetal movement (quickening), though others may not be able to identify movement until around week 20. Soon, though, you’ll be playing footsie with a fetus who insists on poking you in the ribs and dancing the rumba -- just when you settle in for a good night’s rest. And speaking of sleep -- not all pregnant women can! How can you get comfortable? Try warm milk, soothing massage and, as you grow, lots of pillows -- under your leg, under your belly, next to your back... did I also tell you you’ll need a bigger bed? (Hey, once the baby is born, you may never sleep again!)
As early discomforts (nausea, fatigue, breast tenderness) begin to fade, you may start to regain some energy and feel more comfortable with how your body's changing. (Although the top of your uterus is only a bit above your pelvic bone, that growth may be enough to push your tummy out a bit. Starting to show is an exciting pregnancy milestone and it will likely give you and your partner the visible evidence of a baby that you've been waiting for. Take some time to plan, daydream, and enjoy this amazing time. It's normal to worry a bit now and then, but you can also breathe a little sigh of relief knowing that with the start of this trimester your risk of miscarriage has dropped significantly. Now try to focus on taking care of yourself and your baby and having faith that you're well equipped for what's ahead.
The hormonal changes in your body are becoming apparent. Many are in the form of skin changes. You may have developed a dark line down the middle of your abdomen to your pubic bone called a linea negra. The areola (dark nipple portion of your breasts) may have darkened and gotten larger as well. Your uterus is now the size of a grapefruit.
Friday, June 11, 2004
Thoughts on Pregnancy
I haven’t updated in a while, so before I jump into my overwhelming workload today, I thought I’d do a quick entry. I’m tired again. I thought I was getting past that, but this week has wiped me out. I think a big part of it has to do with my current work situation. Since they eliminated the position of the woman who worked most closely with me (with the exception of my boss), I’ve had to pick up a lot of her workload. She had one client that I didn’t work on, that seems to consume enormous amounts of time, plus the boss was out while I was trying to piece things together and I have to help the new admin person on the account piece things together too. This has resulted in people coming to me with questions on this account that I don’t readily have the answers to, so I have to dig through piles of information and e-mail people I’ve never worked with and try to find the answers. My boss came back yesterday and despite all the questions that arose over the past 4 work days, we didn’t have much left to ask him. I’d already figured most of it out.
Anyway, those issues or the combination of the growth spurt the baby must be having has made me long for my bed by 9:30 p.m. I’ve been giving in a lot too. Another piece of good news, I think I’ve adjusted to maternity wear. This morning I considered some non-maternity pants that could still work. I put them on and had to suck in to button. While, they did button, I decided against them. I’m now used to the freedom of the elastic waistband and not getting that pesky outline of the inside button on your stomach by the end of the day. People’s comments have all been positive too. Unless they are talking about me behind my backs, no one seems to think I look ridiculous. If anything, more people have noticed that I’m “showing.” Now don’t get me wrong, maternity clothes are designed to accentuate that your stomach is no longer flat, and I look more pregnant in clothes than out of them at this point. BUT…I also look pregnant in my sweats and T-shirt, so this is definitely for real. I love it. It has become a bit more difficult to get comfortable on the couch or in bed though. I’m sure it will get much worse, but the point is that now I am noticing changes.
Last topic, the heartbeat. I still love the sound. I still listen daily, but I think it’s safe to say that when I pull out the Doppler, I’m not listening for reassurance or because I’m scared or worried. Right now, it’s all about love. It has gotten easier to find the heartbeat this week. When I do find it, it’s such a strong distinct sound. The coolest part is that if I find it, I’ll hold the probe completely still and just listen. I’ll hear it for a while, and then usually it will fade a bit or I’ll hear a bubbly kind of sound (think VH-1’s Pop-Up Video). Then sometimes the heartbeat will completely fade. The baby moves. Then I have to move the probe to find it again. I love the thought that this tiny baby is moving and kicking and growing in there. Just a few more weeks and I’ll be able to feel those movements. I really can’t wait to feel those kicks.
Ahh, I must be glowing.
Anyway, those issues or the combination of the growth spurt the baby must be having has made me long for my bed by 9:30 p.m. I’ve been giving in a lot too. Another piece of good news, I think I’ve adjusted to maternity wear. This morning I considered some non-maternity pants that could still work. I put them on and had to suck in to button. While, they did button, I decided against them. I’m now used to the freedom of the elastic waistband and not getting that pesky outline of the inside button on your stomach by the end of the day. People’s comments have all been positive too. Unless they are talking about me behind my backs, no one seems to think I look ridiculous. If anything, more people have noticed that I’m “showing.” Now don’t get me wrong, maternity clothes are designed to accentuate that your stomach is no longer flat, and I look more pregnant in clothes than out of them at this point. BUT…I also look pregnant in my sweats and T-shirt, so this is definitely for real. I love it. It has become a bit more difficult to get comfortable on the couch or in bed though. I’m sure it will get much worse, but the point is that now I am noticing changes.
Last topic, the heartbeat. I still love the sound. I still listen daily, but I think it’s safe to say that when I pull out the Doppler, I’m not listening for reassurance or because I’m scared or worried. Right now, it’s all about love. It has gotten easier to find the heartbeat this week. When I do find it, it’s such a strong distinct sound. The coolest part is that if I find it, I’ll hold the probe completely still and just listen. I’ll hear it for a while, and then usually it will fade a bit or I’ll hear a bubbly kind of sound (think VH-1’s Pop-Up Video). Then sometimes the heartbeat will completely fade. The baby moves. Then I have to move the probe to find it again. I love the thought that this tiny baby is moving and kicking and growing in there. Just a few more weeks and I’ll be able to feel those movements. I really can’t wait to feel those kicks.
Ahh, I must be glowing.
Sunday, June 06, 2004
Twelve Weeks, One Day - The Thirteenth Week
My Symptoms
I feel good this week. The main change going on with me is the expanding waistline. I feel weird about it. I'm excited don't get me wrong, but it is still weird when someone mentions it to me. I wore maternity clothes a little at work too last week. Mostly the pants, no shirts that were obvious. When I wore the clothes to the movies I almost felt like an imposter. It's obvious to me and those around me that my body is changing, but there still isn't that tell-tale bulge that can't be mistaken for anything but a baby. I guess I need to accept it, I am pregnant, and these clothes are now more comfortable. People won't judge and think I'm switching too early. This will be irrelevant in a couple of weeks anyway. Soon, it will be obvious to everyone.
The other weird thing about growing is that I can tell I'm bigger. I don't really know how to explain this. I guess when I imagined being pregnant, I imagined I'd feel like me, but just have a belly (Think-Maternity store mirror with the belly pillow strapped on). Now that's it's growing, it's like I am too. That belly that's getting there is also a part of me. When I sit, I just feel this extra part of me on my stomach. I'm used to where my belly button is supposed to be and how it feels to be standing around in jeans. I keep finding myself trying to hold in my stomach. I'm not sure if I did it before or if I'm just trying to feel "normal." It's really hard to just let loose and let it all hang out. I guess I've been so programmed to wanting to feel thin and have a flat stomach that subconciously I'm still fighting it. It surprises me, because I've at the same time, been excitedly looking forward to the day I'd wake up round. I guess I just didn't imagine that I'd feel round as well as looking it. It's not like strapping on the belly pillow in the maternity store. This belly belongs to me. Ok, here's what happens this week of development.
The Baby
Your baby is growing rapidly! It's crown-to-rump length is 2.6 to 3.1 inches, and it weight between .5 and .7 ounce. It is about the size of a peach. Fetal grown is particulary striking now through about 24 weeks of pregnancy. One interesting change is the relative slowdown in the growth of the baby's head compared to the rest of his body. In week 13, the head is about half the crown-to-rump length. By week 21, the head is about one-fourth the size of it's body. Your baby's face is beginning to look more humanlike. Eyes, which started out on the side of the head, move closer together on the face. The ears come to lie in their normal position on the side of the head. Eternal genitalia have developed enough so that a male can be distinguished from a female if examined outside the womb.
Your belly may soon be big enough to announce to the world that you're expecting, but your baby is still tiny. In fact, he's only about 3 inches long crown to rump — roughly the size of a jumbo shrimp — and weighs just about an ounce. Despite the small proportions, there's a fully formed baby inside your womb now. Much more proportional than it was a few weeks ago, his head is now only about a third the size of his body. His tiny, unique fingerprints are already in place. His kidneys and urinary tract are functional, and he's starting to urinate out the amniotic fluid he's been swallowing. As you start your second trimester, most of your baby's critical development will be completed, and your odds of miscarriage will drop considerably.
There are a lot of things going on this week! All twenty teeth have formed and are waiting (Teething is yet to come!). Your baby approximately weighs in at 1 ounce (28.3 grams). Consider that the placenta weighs about an ounce now as well. Your baby's intestines are migrating from the umbilical cord into his or her abdomen. The villi are also forming in the intestines, these help in peristaltic movements and digestion. The pancreas of your little one is even secreting insulin!
The Mom
Your uterus has grown quite a bit. You can probably feel its upper edge above the pubic bone in the lowest part of your abdomen, about 4 inches below your bellybutton. At 12 to 13 weeks, your uterus fills your pelvis and starts growing upward into your abdomen. It feels like a soft, smooth ball. You have probably gaines some weight by now. If morning sickness has been a problem and you've had a hard time eating, you may not have gained much weight. As you feel better and as your baby rapidly starts to gain weight, you'll gain weight. You are losing your waist! Clothing fits snugly. It's time to start wearing loose-fitting clothing.
The Second Trimester! Hooray! Your morning sickness should be starting to subside, and miscarriage is less of a risk. The second trimester brings in relief and reality... Yes, you're really having a baby! Now that the high-risk period is over, you probably have some pregnancy announcements to make. That is, if you've been able to keep the big news a secret.
Time to celebrate! This is the last week of your first trimester. Next week you'll be in your second trimester. That's great news for two reasons: One, your risk of miscarriage drops dramatically, and two, many women see early pregnancy symptoms, such as morning sickness, subside. (In some cases, though, heartburn replaces the nausea.) Birth is still months away, but your breasts may have already started making colostrum, the nutrient-rich fluid that feeds your baby for the first few days after birth, before your milk starts to flow. Many couples also notice a distinct libido lift in the second trimester as nausea abates and energy returns.
Welcome to the second trimester! This is usually the time when mothers feel their best. They are "over" the joys of early pregnancy and have more energy. They are also beginning to feel pregnant. Some people have delayed spreading the good news until this point. If you are one of these people enjoy telling now, and think of some creative ways to do it. This is also a time when fathers and other family members start becoming more involved as the pregnancy becomes more real for them. Encourage them to participate in your pregnancy to the extent that you feel comfortable with.
Your appointments will now consist of:
Blood Pressure
Weight
Fundal Height (Growth of the Uterus)
Baby's Heart Tones
Urine
I feel good this week. The main change going on with me is the expanding waistline. I feel weird about it. I'm excited don't get me wrong, but it is still weird when someone mentions it to me. I wore maternity clothes a little at work too last week. Mostly the pants, no shirts that were obvious. When I wore the clothes to the movies I almost felt like an imposter. It's obvious to me and those around me that my body is changing, but there still isn't that tell-tale bulge that can't be mistaken for anything but a baby. I guess I need to accept it, I am pregnant, and these clothes are now more comfortable. People won't judge and think I'm switching too early. This will be irrelevant in a couple of weeks anyway. Soon, it will be obvious to everyone.
The other weird thing about growing is that I can tell I'm bigger. I don't really know how to explain this. I guess when I imagined being pregnant, I imagined I'd feel like me, but just have a belly (Think-Maternity store mirror with the belly pillow strapped on). Now that's it's growing, it's like I am too. That belly that's getting there is also a part of me. When I sit, I just feel this extra part of me on my stomach. I'm used to where my belly button is supposed to be and how it feels to be standing around in jeans. I keep finding myself trying to hold in my stomach. I'm not sure if I did it before or if I'm just trying to feel "normal." It's really hard to just let loose and let it all hang out. I guess I've been so programmed to wanting to feel thin and have a flat stomach that subconciously I'm still fighting it. It surprises me, because I've at the same time, been excitedly looking forward to the day I'd wake up round. I guess I just didn't imagine that I'd feel round as well as looking it. It's not like strapping on the belly pillow in the maternity store. This belly belongs to me. Ok, here's what happens this week of development.
The Baby
Your baby is growing rapidly! It's crown-to-rump length is 2.6 to 3.1 inches, and it weight between .5 and .7 ounce. It is about the size of a peach. Fetal grown is particulary striking now through about 24 weeks of pregnancy. One interesting change is the relative slowdown in the growth of the baby's head compared to the rest of his body. In week 13, the head is about half the crown-to-rump length. By week 21, the head is about one-fourth the size of it's body. Your baby's face is beginning to look more humanlike. Eyes, which started out on the side of the head, move closer together on the face. The ears come to lie in their normal position on the side of the head. Eternal genitalia have developed enough so that a male can be distinguished from a female if examined outside the womb.
Your belly may soon be big enough to announce to the world that you're expecting, but your baby is still tiny. In fact, he's only about 3 inches long crown to rump — roughly the size of a jumbo shrimp — and weighs just about an ounce. Despite the small proportions, there's a fully formed baby inside your womb now. Much more proportional than it was a few weeks ago, his head is now only about a third the size of his body. His tiny, unique fingerprints are already in place. His kidneys and urinary tract are functional, and he's starting to urinate out the amniotic fluid he's been swallowing. As you start your second trimester, most of your baby's critical development will be completed, and your odds of miscarriage will drop considerably.
There are a lot of things going on this week! All twenty teeth have formed and are waiting (Teething is yet to come!). Your baby approximately weighs in at 1 ounce (28.3 grams). Consider that the placenta weighs about an ounce now as well. Your baby's intestines are migrating from the umbilical cord into his or her abdomen. The villi are also forming in the intestines, these help in peristaltic movements and digestion. The pancreas of your little one is even secreting insulin!
The Mom
Your uterus has grown quite a bit. You can probably feel its upper edge above the pubic bone in the lowest part of your abdomen, about 4 inches below your bellybutton. At 12 to 13 weeks, your uterus fills your pelvis and starts growing upward into your abdomen. It feels like a soft, smooth ball. You have probably gaines some weight by now. If morning sickness has been a problem and you've had a hard time eating, you may not have gained much weight. As you feel better and as your baby rapidly starts to gain weight, you'll gain weight. You are losing your waist! Clothing fits snugly. It's time to start wearing loose-fitting clothing.
The Second Trimester! Hooray! Your morning sickness should be starting to subside, and miscarriage is less of a risk. The second trimester brings in relief and reality... Yes, you're really having a baby! Now that the high-risk period is over, you probably have some pregnancy announcements to make. That is, if you've been able to keep the big news a secret.
Time to celebrate! This is the last week of your first trimester. Next week you'll be in your second trimester. That's great news for two reasons: One, your risk of miscarriage drops dramatically, and two, many women see early pregnancy symptoms, such as morning sickness, subside. (In some cases, though, heartburn replaces the nausea.) Birth is still months away, but your breasts may have already started making colostrum, the nutrient-rich fluid that feeds your baby for the first few days after birth, before your milk starts to flow. Many couples also notice a distinct libido lift in the second trimester as nausea abates and energy returns.
Welcome to the second trimester! This is usually the time when mothers feel their best. They are "over" the joys of early pregnancy and have more energy. They are also beginning to feel pregnant. Some people have delayed spreading the good news until this point. If you are one of these people enjoy telling now, and think of some creative ways to do it. This is also a time when fathers and other family members start becoming more involved as the pregnancy becomes more real for them. Encourage them to participate in your pregnancy to the extent that you feel comfortable with.
Your appointments will now consist of:
Blood Pressure
Weight
Fundal Height (Growth of the Uterus)
Baby's Heart Tones
Urine
Life Update
It seems like it's been a while since I wrote about other things going on in my life. I guess I'll make this a kind of weekend update, but also pick up some highlights from last week.
Last weekend we spent the weekend in Indiana visiting family. Eric worked a little on Saturday, so we didn't get to leave until almost 11 a.m. We went to Eric's brothers for the day and had a cookout. Eric's Mom and friend came down too, so we got to spend some time with them. We spent the night Saturday night. Sunday morning we drove up to my Grandparents house for another cookout. My parents came over from Iowa and we got to spend Sunday with my family. There ended up being about 13 people and 4 dogs there at one point. We spent the night Sunday and then drove home Monday morning.
Tuesday, was back to work and I got a lot done. We had to tie up some loose ends as my boss was going to be out for a week as his wife was being induced and the baby coming on Wednesday. Wednesday was also business as usual, and Pete never called with baby news.
Thursday morning we finally got a call that the baby was born just after midnight. They had a boy. I had to leave work around 11 a.m. as I had volunteered to work at our Corporate hospitality tent at The Memorial Tournament (professional golf). Right before I left, my friend Kristin, told me that a woman in my office had been laid off and she had heard there were more to come. We joked about whether we'd see each other the next day. Right after I made it to the tournament, I got a call on my cell phone from another woman in the office asking if Kristin was with me. Apparently 8 people had been let go and no one could find Kristin. I called her cell phone and confirmed the news. She was one of the eight. Fortunately I was not, but it's still a bit of a morale deflater that some more people are gone. On a lighter note, Thursday night, Eric and I went to the movies with our neighbors and saw Troy. It was better than I expected, so I was overall pleased. I also officially wore maternity clothes that look like maternity clothes for the first time in public.
Don't I look cute?
Friday was weird at work. I spent a good portion of the time trying to figure out how to help clients that were now without a service team. One client has my boss, Kristin, and a CE who was also released, none of them are around now. I had scheduled summer hours though, so I went ahead and left at noon and got my hair done.
Saturday, Eric and I went shopping. First we took my car by the body shop to have them order parts, so we can get started on repairs soon. We also stopped at Best Buy for some software to help us out with our Spyware/Adware problem. The initial scan showed 152 threats on our computer. Eric got a new pair of tennis shoes. And we shopped for baby furninture. It's harder than I expected. The store we picked furniture out in last time has went out of business. We found a crib we liked at Baby Depot in Burlington Coat Factory for $299, but there wasn't any matching furniture like a dresser or changing table. Babies R Us didn't lead me to anything I loved. We also went to a non-chain type store called My Own Room. We found a crib and dresser there that I love (we'd still have to get a stand alone changing table), but the pieces were $559 each. Don't get me wrong, it's quality furninture, plus the bed is convertible to a toddler and full size bed. The dresser would last forever too. I just don't know if I'm ready to spend quite that much on infant furniture. When I got home (after my nap of course), I did some online shopping. I found a crib/dresser/and changer that I like on a website for about $810 total. I just am not sure if stuff is as nice as it looks online and if I trust spending that much money on a site that I've never heard of before I started searching. The last option is E-bay. It sounds a little crazy, but a message board that I read mentioned the seller's name and said good things about it. I checked out the options and can get the exact same crib/dresser/changer I found at the online store for $775 including shipping. I just don't know what to do. At least I'm researching, but it would be easier if the stuff that's cheaper was at a store here in town and I could just order in person. At about 10:30 p.m. Eric and I went to the neighbors to play Euchre. We were up until almost 1 a.m.
Sunday (today) been kind of lazy. We did go to church this morning and then to lunch with Martin and April. I just got up from a nap and thought I'd update. There a huge pile of laundry in the bedroom calling me and I've got to get to the grocery store. I have actually ran out of bottled water! Ok, I'm going to write another post about the baby update now.
Last weekend we spent the weekend in Indiana visiting family. Eric worked a little on Saturday, so we didn't get to leave until almost 11 a.m. We went to Eric's brothers for the day and had a cookout. Eric's Mom and friend came down too, so we got to spend some time with them. We spent the night Saturday night. Sunday morning we drove up to my Grandparents house for another cookout. My parents came over from Iowa and we got to spend Sunday with my family. There ended up being about 13 people and 4 dogs there at one point. We spent the night Sunday and then drove home Monday morning.
Tuesday, was back to work and I got a lot done. We had to tie up some loose ends as my boss was going to be out for a week as his wife was being induced and the baby coming on Wednesday. Wednesday was also business as usual, and Pete never called with baby news.
Thursday morning we finally got a call that the baby was born just after midnight. They had a boy. I had to leave work around 11 a.m. as I had volunteered to work at our Corporate hospitality tent at The Memorial Tournament (professional golf). Right before I left, my friend Kristin, told me that a woman in my office had been laid off and she had heard there were more to come. We joked about whether we'd see each other the next day. Right after I made it to the tournament, I got a call on my cell phone from another woman in the office asking if Kristin was with me. Apparently 8 people had been let go and no one could find Kristin. I called her cell phone and confirmed the news. She was one of the eight. Fortunately I was not, but it's still a bit of a morale deflater that some more people are gone. On a lighter note, Thursday night, Eric and I went to the movies with our neighbors and saw Troy. It was better than I expected, so I was overall pleased. I also officially wore maternity clothes that look like maternity clothes for the first time in public.
Don't I look cute?
Friday was weird at work. I spent a good portion of the time trying to figure out how to help clients that were now without a service team. One client has my boss, Kristin, and a CE who was also released, none of them are around now. I had scheduled summer hours though, so I went ahead and left at noon and got my hair done.
Saturday, Eric and I went shopping. First we took my car by the body shop to have them order parts, so we can get started on repairs soon. We also stopped at Best Buy for some software to help us out with our Spyware/Adware problem. The initial scan showed 152 threats on our computer. Eric got a new pair of tennis shoes. And we shopped for baby furninture. It's harder than I expected. The store we picked furniture out in last time has went out of business. We found a crib we liked at Baby Depot in Burlington Coat Factory for $299, but there wasn't any matching furniture like a dresser or changing table. Babies R Us didn't lead me to anything I loved. We also went to a non-chain type store called My Own Room. We found a crib and dresser there that I love (we'd still have to get a stand alone changing table), but the pieces were $559 each. Don't get me wrong, it's quality furninture, plus the bed is convertible to a toddler and full size bed. The dresser would last forever too. I just don't know if I'm ready to spend quite that much on infant furniture. When I got home (after my nap of course), I did some online shopping. I found a crib/dresser/and changer that I like on a website for about $810 total. I just am not sure if stuff is as nice as it looks online and if I trust spending that much money on a site that I've never heard of before I started searching. The last option is E-bay. It sounds a little crazy, but a message board that I read mentioned the seller's name and said good things about it. I checked out the options and can get the exact same crib/dresser/changer I found at the online store for $775 including shipping. I just don't know what to do. At least I'm researching, but it would be easier if the stuff that's cheaper was at a store here in town and I could just order in person. At about 10:30 p.m. Eric and I went to the neighbors to play Euchre. We were up until almost 1 a.m.
Sunday (today) been kind of lazy. We did go to church this morning and then to lunch with Martin and April. I just got up from a nap and thought I'd update. There a huge pile of laundry in the bedroom calling me and I've got to get to the grocery store. I have actually ran out of bottled water! Ok, I'm going to write another post about the baby update now.
Wednesday, June 02, 2004
Measurements and New Belly Picture
Finally as promised.
The link to my belly picture at 11 weeks 3 days. Personally, I don't think it looks much different from the 8 week picture except that it seems like I'm wider all over rather than just at the belly area. Trust me, the clothes fit differently and there is a difference. Also, here are my stats compared to the beginning. Again, not much change, but I think I'm getting wider in places not being measured, like under my belly button, but not quite the hips. Anyway, at least I have a record.
Before = (B) Current =(C)
Weight - 150.5 (B), 150.5 (C) = -.5 pound
Bicep - 11 3/4 (B), 11 3/4 (C) = No change
Chest - 35 1/2 (B), 37 1/4 (C) = +1 3/4 inches
Waist (at smallest point) - 30 (B), 31 (C) = +1 inches
Waist (at belly button) - 32 1/2 (B), 34 1/2 (C) = +2 inches
Hips - 38 (B), 38 (C) = No change
Thigh - 23 (B), 22 1/2 (C) = - 1/2 inch
Calf - 14 (B), 14 (C) = No change
The link to my belly picture at 11 weeks 3 days. Personally, I don't think it looks much different from the 8 week picture except that it seems like I'm wider all over rather than just at the belly area. Trust me, the clothes fit differently and there is a difference. Also, here are my stats compared to the beginning. Again, not much change, but I think I'm getting wider in places not being measured, like under my belly button, but not quite the hips. Anyway, at least I have a record.
Before = (B) Current =(C)
Weight - 150.5 (B), 150.5 (C) = -.5 pound
Bicep - 11 3/4 (B), 11 3/4 (C) = No change
Chest - 35 1/2 (B), 37 1/4 (C) = +1 3/4 inches
Waist (at smallest point) - 30 (B), 31 (C) = +1 inches
Waist (at belly button) - 32 1/2 (B), 34 1/2 (C) = +2 inches
Hips - 38 (B), 38 (C) = No change
Thigh - 23 (B), 22 1/2 (C) = - 1/2 inch
Calf - 14 (B), 14 (C) = No change
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